Am i messing up?

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So I've been a sucker for love.
All my relationships been kinda stupid and childish. The last one was the most important one because I feel like I did fall in love. My parents hate him,and well he is a thief,school dropout&unemployed.
I let him go,and now I am a careless girl who is not interested whatsoever in a guys. I am becoming too bitter and a heartless. am i messing up? what should i do? Is it normal?

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago

    Normal for a short time, but you will need to move on someday to ever have your dreams come true

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Uhm.. bit of a stretch here but. Why not date a good guy? Ohh hoho!! Sorry, there I go with my crazy talk again..

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  • red678
    13 years ago

    It's normal to feel sad.. but get out of that rut. Hit the gym, go swimming do something fun. Maybe go to a church and get that anger out of your heart. Date guys with goals and that share your ideas and move onto a happier life

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  • stillwondering
    13 years ago

    It is normal to mess up when you are young. How else would you learn anything?

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  • lewlew80
    13 years ago

    Wow, a thief?? He can't come over my house that's for sure lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    aha welcome to my world lol. Iv only had two relationships in my life first time was to see what it was like (i hated it) the second was for a skateboard lol but then again i get told im different because i replaced the love in me for the pride i have now
    i dont recomend going down that road because you have been happy about having relationships and have experienced love my guess is you will end up being depressed
    i think only people who start out the way i have dont feel depressed about the whole lonely thing and would rather live lonely because they have never wanted nor had love in a relationship sense so they dont miss the love because they never have felt it but from what you explained you have loved if you take it away and go down a different road you will end up depressed because you know how happy you are in relationships

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  • pyt1985
    13 years ago

    I think u have to stick with what makes sense to u. But dont let one bad experience ruin it all.... I'm coming out of a situation like that now and sometimes u just have get out there and meet new people, there are so many fish in the sea. Dnt let ur love life stop here.

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  • Monet19
    13 years ago

    thank-you very much :)
    I think over all you might be right, am going to go for what I really believe in..

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    I'm guessing not a lot of people will answer this. In short, think what you want for yourself and what type of guy will provide that. That may sound kind of selfish, and it is, but think about the long-term. Find someone who is right for you and your vision of what you may be for the rest of your life. If thieves and dropouts are your bag, go for that.

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