Am i marriage phobic?

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is it normal that every time I am in a relationship I brake up with the guy as soon as he tells me he loves me?.. It is very frustrating, because I've been with two guys who I really liked and maybe loved but when I noticed that things started getting too serious I broke up with them. Just thinking about getting married makes me wanna trow up. I am the only single left in all my friends, sometimes I wish I had someone close to me but as soon as I see it happening I push them away and go back to being single. Is it that maybe I am just used to be alone? or am I really a marriage phobic?

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Based on 28 votes (14 yes)
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  • Malice27
    13 years ago

    you are not the alone...I was the just like you, then I found a open relationship and it works for me, I get my space he gets his and we love each other but we also love being with other people. I'm horrified of even the thought of marriage, some people are made for marriage and others are not. You just have to find out what works for you.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago

    @ couldntthinkofagoodusername

    LOl! first of all, I love your nickname..lol... well believe it or not I've told myself the same thing many times. but here is the worst part about my drama, what is even more scary than getting married is getting divorced! maybe cause to be honest, i really respect marriage and think that marriage should be forever. I just dont want to get married and then divorce.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Why is getting married so scary? It's just one day and then u get to spend the rest of ur life with the person u love! :) but if u don't want what u get u can always get a divorce so it's not like ur setting anything in stone. And if you've been alone all of ur life then that's even more of a reason u should want to get married and start a family :) and u can all live happily ever after! :D

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