Am i lgbtq?

Is it normal that i like hearing my freinds voice(hes a guy)its comforting and i feel empty without him with me in some way and i call him almost every day im worried that im too obsesive and actually gay/look gay.I dont think im gay i have a gf but iv also had this wierd thought that it would be nice to give a guy head, except imagine myself as a girl when i think of it i dont really want to be a girl and im only sexually atracted to men in that one situation scenario.

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Comments ( 16 )
  • JellyBeanBandit

    You're bicurious. You have a girlfriend though so you shouldn't do anything about it unless you have her permission or you two break up.

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  • bigbudchonga

    It's not gay so long as you say no homo after, and don't swallow

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    • Flawless

      you can still swallow if you say no homo

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  • Clunk42

    It sounds to me that you're not gay. If you've only thought about giving a single person head once, nah.

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  • Boogienights

    My question is why are you worried that you "might be gay"? If youre gay youre gay. Nothing you can do about it so what is it about being gay that worries you?? Its 2019. Being gay is ok.

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  • cupcake_wants

    you might be gay/bi. If that's the case, it's OK. You're no less of a person if you are. Find out within yourself what you are, you eventually will figure it out. Just respect other's sexual orientations. If he's not gay, then don't go there. Maybe try going to a gay club and mingle, have fun and see how you feel. You may figure out that you're gay/bi.. or maybe you just got a man crush being straight.

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  • jethro

    Its gay. Plain and simple. It is only a matter of time before you realize it and go full monty gay.

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  • dimwitted

    Experiment.

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  • libertybell

    Why do imagine you are a girl when you fantasize about giving head?

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    • message-man

      I would only want to be girl in that situations.

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  • JayDerp247

    If you’re SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to men, then yes you are. But that’s ok! I am straight but I am neutral with LBBTQ lol

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  • Flawless

    bi for sure but definitely a hint of trans. people are complex.

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    You may be, but is doesn't sound like it to me. Your more likely SLGBT like the majority of us.

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  • RoseIsabella

    You sound quite young, and I assume you're probably still trying to figure yourself out which is normal.

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  • Ellenna

    Think about it, you can't be LGBTQ because how could one person fit into both lesbian and gay male categories????

    It does sound as if you're at least a bit gay: so what?

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    • message-man

      Thanks for the oppinion.

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