Am i lesbian ?

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I'm wondering if I'm a lesbian. I just can't seem to make things work out with any man. Im pretty asexual. Men's personalities disgust me more then they impress me. Same with their porn. Even the "nice guys" I haven't really been able to keep an interest in.
I've always found most women more charming and kind. (At least not the catty ones) and super pretty, still couldn't imagine myself being sexual with any. But idk. I often imagine myself in an asexual relationship with a woman in a beautiful purple brick house covered in vines and huge windows, in some woods somewhere. Sipping on tea at a little table in front of the window while reading a book across from each other just enjoying each other's presence while we listen to the birds sing outside.
We'd hold hands and softly kiss, and cuddle by fires under the stars, while sharing a huge scarf I crocheted.. ahh.. what it's like to dream..

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  • Plutoqueen123
    5 years ago

    No you’re american

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    5 years ago

    That's pretty ignorant.
    Being a lesbian means you're attracted to women. Not you're attracted to the thought of banging them. I mean, you can be attracted to their minds, AND want to bang them.
    But I'm just more attracted to their personalities and beauty. Just because I don't want to have sex doesn't mean I can't fall in love with someone. And just because I'm asexual doesn't mean I never have sex. Sometimes I will. I don't necessarily hate it but I don't exactly enjoy it either. Sex is just sex to me. Nothing special.
    I've met a lot of women who are in asexual relationships with one another.
    So yeah, it's definitely ignorant to think they all have a high sex drive.
    You know nothing, John snow.

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    • lordofopinions
      5 years ago

      I can understand your position. I would bet there are a lot of women in your situation. Take my wife for example. PLEASE! I am positive she has changed into an asexual. Guys are different. We are hardwired to spread our seed. I have a theory that early humans propogated by rape.

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    • VetusRebellioIudaicum
      5 years ago

      JON Snow*

      CORRECTION******

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  • Bailey_Rose
    5 years ago

    Honest question: Do you fantasize about sexual situations? Do you masturbate? If you masturbate, I don't think you are really as asexual as you may think. It's quite possible you may be. But the only way to really find out is to strike up an friendship with another woman to see if you are a lesbian or asexual.

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  • jethro
    5 years ago

    Wanting to live in a purple brick house is a bigger problem, for you, than being confused about your sexuality.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      I'm guessing you have never dated an artist?

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      • jethro
        5 years ago

        Art is subjective. A purple brick house is just plain bad taste no matter how you look at it.

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        • [Old Memory]
          5 years ago

          The hell you say!! I've seen purple houses that were aesthetically stunning. Just because you have a taste for vanilla doesn't give you the right to deny chocolate lovers their 'just desserts.' Pun intended.

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          • jethro
            5 years ago

            Sure it does. Did the descriptor "subjective" escape you? I didn't deny anyone anything. I merely pointed out that the choice of domicile would pose a greater hunderance than the relationship. And your assumption that I only have a taste for vanilla, as you say, is more reflective on your short minded snowflake millennial aspect of people than my opinion of a purple brick house. I hope that this response didn't trigger you.

            By the way:
            http://www.smosh.com/articles/here-are-most-popular-flavors-ice-cream-6-countries-around-world

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            • [Old Memory]
              5 years ago

              It was a metaphor, jethro. You totally misread my intent, temperament, and generation.

              Excellent demonstration of simple-minded label tossing though. So, yay for you.

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  • Oralbuddy
    5 years ago

    Just give it a try and see how you feel being with a woman casually and sexual.

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  • FaithGem
    5 years ago

    at the end of the day labels are just labels, go explore! :p

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    The scenario you described sounds lovely. Maybe you should find a lesbian or bisexual woman whose company you really enjoy and see what happens. Often people don't know what they truly desire until they find it.

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  • EnglishLad
    5 years ago

    I think you're an asexual lesbian. You see yourself living with a woman in a sexless marriage.

    Completely OK and normal, if a little boring. I hope you find a girl who is ok with this arrangement. I'm sure there are more ladies in your position.

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  • perfectxsilence
    5 years ago

    I think you're just curious

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