Am i just being paranoid?

Sometimes I feel like all my friends ignore me. I never get phonecalls, or messages online, and they never invite me when they do stuff outside of school. Is it normal to feel like no one cares if you have anything to do, or to feel like everyone hates you behind their backs?

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Comments ( 10 )
  • Footfan_90

    paranoid emos taking the world over one iin post at a time

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  • AlexFox

    That's pretty vivid..

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  • aml909

    That is just like me. I never get calls to hang out or anything. What I do is I usually call them and when we do end up hanging out, I just try to have as much fun as we can so we can hang out again but I do not constantly call them then they will be annoyed

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  • housecat

    If you want to hang out, call them to hang out! Simple.

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  • secretguy25

    that happened alot to me at school i avoided friends because i was shy so they avoid you back because they dont get your attention.

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  • jenhen2545

    Try calling them.

    Maybe your friends are just like mine - they're all quiet and don't like making plans. They've told me it's because they're always afraid the person will say no. So it's almost always me that ends up making plans to hang out :)

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  • DerPoltergeist13

    Ignore all the comments about emo, which I am not either, it's just annoying reading them.

    I used to have the same problem. Often, the problem is finding right people and showing them that you want to hang out with them. They have not invited you to do anything, but have you invited them to hang out with you either? Ask them sometime to come over and do whatever that you might both enjoy, and then they will invite you to things to. Trust me, it works!

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  • candycane

    I have the same problem. I am really shy and even when I hang out with my friends at school, I am usually pretty quiet and don't say much. Let your friends no how much you like hanging out with them. Maybe throw a get together or something at your house to let them know you want to hang out with them more after school.

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  • sounds like your not really their friend

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  • Maybe you should call them.

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