Am i just afraid of my bisexuality?

We place so much weight on this question and it is so silly. The most important question to ask yourself is: "Will I be a different person if I like girls?" I'll bet you will have the same values and be just as responsible as you are now, maybe even more so.

Liking a girl does not make you a sinner! It does not make you a deviate! It may just be who you are and that is perfectly okay.

So, stop worrying about it and just be who you are. If someone doesn't like you because of it, that is their problem. They probably need to seek some help, not you.

This is from the Proud Father of a Lesbian.

Father of Zeus

Sounds like you are bi. So what?

Bisexuality has been generally accepted over the long years of history.

Some societies are afraid of it.

My god what is happening to us! Women wearing shoes, driving cars, learning how to read. Why next they'll be asking for the vote!

Oh wait that was the beginning of the last century.

You're probably going through a fase where you need to experience different things to see what you like.
It could be just curiosity or you could be bi, but right now there's not much you can do because this is an internal conflict.

Also, just because you think girls are pretty or sexy, doesn't mean you want to have sex with them or be with them. You will have to try it on a little more to see it.

But if you really are bi, don't worry, ok? People don't have so much prejudice as they used to, and those who still have it are just assholes that you shouldn't care about.

I'm not bi myself (I'm straight), but my best female friend is (she has a crush on me, actually) and my best male friend is gay, so I'm pretty used to all of it.
That girl friend of mine says that everybody is bi, they just don't admitt it.

I would tell you not to be worried, but I know that right now you should probably be under difficult circumstantes, and that won't happen. Listen, don't you care about the sex...what matters is the soul and who you love.

Good luck and stay calm, ok?

You should go with your instincts. Have a relationship with a woman and test the waters. You will know soon after whether it is meant for you or not. You need to satisfy this curiosity you have, don't wait any longer or it will eat you up inside.

You might not be bi. I'm a lot like you, have always had more guy friends than girl friends and am more comfortable around men. And yes, I find that women are very attractive to look at. I've even kissed a couple. But I'm perfectly straight. Despite the fact that I apreciate womens' beauty and consider them the far more attractive gender, they just don't inspire the same feelings in me that men do. If you could seriously picture yourself ever falling in love with a women, then you're probably bi. But otherwise you're probably just openminded and fun.

I sometimes feel this way too and I have kissed girls but over all I still like guys more then girls weather as friends or bfs there is just some stuff that u can do with girls that u can't do with guys and the other way around

Do you feel excited whatching a porn movie ,threesome sex ,two girls and a guy? if you do so you are a BI ,congratulations

i thin bi courios is the best way to explain it now, one frined of mine her and i dated for about a month she too checked out girls and did the same as you, her and i stayed close as friends when she want to FSU she tried new things with girls, and now she says she liked what happened with the girls she doesn't regret it but she knows for sure that she like guys, she says she likes girls alot but it's just not the same. this maybe the case with you or maybe it's that you are bi but either way the only way you'll know for sure is by testing the waters.

You could be bi, but there's a difference between thinking someone of the same sex is 'sexy' and being truly attracted to them. When you are just physically 'attracted' to girls, that doesn't mean you're entirely attracted to them. There's more to a loving relationship than just physical attraction.

Just stop worrying and enjoy your life. You could be a bit shy of girls because you're becoming bi or perhaps queer. That's normal - normal doesn't mean majority. Just make love or don't make love, as you want, when you want, with who you want.Don't look over your shoulder at what the others are doing.
Well said RocketMan.

I think guys are far more cool about girls being bi than girls are about guys being bi. Also, I think you are still rather young and still working on your overall identity. So relax. BTW, how is your relationship with your mom?

I guess you're a little bi-curious

Would it be any different if you have a bf thats a crossdresser ? Unless he just would be one butt-ugly female. But the clothes, the perfumes, the hair, or the way a female carries herself, most are just damn sexy anyway. But the woman that admit to liking other women are SO DAMN SEXY. But what if your bf was checking out other guys ? How would you feel ?

Haha it's totally normal :) I think I'm that way a little too! But I lovvee guys more

How about this? U are the way u are. There is no real need to catagorize yourself in my opinion.

maybe its due to your upbringing... what is the use of titles?

To me, it looks like you are bi. It is completely acceptible to most people that women are bisexual.
I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. Your boyfriend will probably love that you are bi.
You are very normal. Good Luck!

I think you're fine.Girls are simply a lot prettier and soft and sweet.They look good to everyone,not just boys...And in my opinion,if they would be completely honest about it MOST girls or women for that matter are just a couple stiff drinks away from a lesbian experience at any given moment.....Most of us guys are just plain envious that this avenue is open to you and not us....Be happy and have fun.

I don't think it is at all unusual. OR that you are turning bi. I think that you may just be insecure about your sexuality?

Probably. But who cares?

You sure are Bi..
BTW thats a good thing right..

ya your probably bi you should haveing a gf...

Sounds like your bi sexual. But again you could be all gay. I was like you 2 years ago. Now Im a full blown lesbian, lost all attraction with men.

i dont think there is anyone alive that doesnt like a bisexual girl, it's not like gay people where people hate them

your probably bi