Am i insecure or bi curious ?

I watch porn a lot, and if i watch it usually has men with a lot of muscle in it, or it has men that look better than i do,because it's how i'd like to look. I am a pretty skinny guy, and i'm very insecure. Is me watching this kind of porn just me being insecure or is this mean i'm bi curious ? I like girls and i never really wanted to try being with a guy, so idk. Help me !

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  • quentari

    Are you watching gay porn or straight porn? If you don't feel bi-curious then you probably aren't. What you're in to porn-wise rarely has anything to do with your real-life tastes and preferences

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  • Eveyana

    People really need to understand that porn preference and fantasies don't always say anything about a person's orientation. One can be straight and enjoy bi or gay or lesbian porn. I often enjoy reading / fantasizing about non consensual sex. Does that mean I'm a rapist or potential rapist in real life? Absolutely not.

    Just because you like watching bi or gay porn, does not mean you are bi or gay or insecure. It just means you like to watch bi / gay porn. I'm a straight woman who likes to watch gay porn on occasion, does that make me a gay man? I also like watching lesbian porn but in real life, I am not attracted to women. In fact, I feel nothing for them and can't ever see myself in a relationship with one. I love men (sexually, romantically, emotionally and psychologically). I find women arousing in porn and sometimes in fantasy but not in real life. On an emotional and psychological level, I feel absolutely nothing for women. So there you go. :)

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  • popperpop

    If you want to try being with a guy I'd say bi curious but you spoke more of wanting to look like them, I'd say you're most likely insecure

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  • GreyWulfen

    Well, if you fantasize about the men in your porn, than you are probably bisexual.
    This is confirmed by your preference for muscular men.
    Most (especially gay) men prefer muscular, masculine guys.

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    • Archbang

      Not also. I'm a gay, but I don't prefer muscular guys. As long as I am so much attracted to the guy's appearance.

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      • Biggyp16

        How long have you been gay for?

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      • GreyWulfen

        This is why I wrote "most", not "all".

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  • k1d

    If you're looking at their muscles like, "I wish I could be like that." Insecure. If you're looking at their dicks and basically drooling and you get a hard on you may be curious.

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  • ozzyy18

    its normal your juss insecure & maybe you wanna try it

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  • chron

    You're just insecure, it's pretty normal.

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  • ToTellYouTheTruth

    For that last poster... your just extremely confused and screwed in the head. Maybe dad didnt love you enough or maybe too much but I suggest you seek psychotherapy. Your not a man or a boy until you establish your gender your an it. Sorry

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  • ToTellYouTheTruth

    Your just confused brother.. if you want to look like them get to hitting the gym and get yourself out of a prespective of admiration and desire for something similar. Don't confuse your desire for a fit body with the drive you feel toward the girl he's boning. You just want to be like him not fuck him haha. Good lucm man

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  • nevadaslimjim

    I'm along the lines with Eveyana. Men and their physique do not interest me one bit but, oddly enough, I do enjoy looking at pictures of cocks. Not only do I fantasize of a 3-some with my g/f and another guy, but I often wonder (and hope to experience one day) what it would feel like to have someone thrust his manhood in and out of my mouth and enjoy the warm splashes in my face that follow. A frequent fantasy I masturbate to is being on my knees orally servicing multiple men. I love women and enjoy looking at their bodies, but am I missing out on something? Perhaps that fits the label of bi-curious.

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  • I asked a very similar question a few months ago, and I am in a similar situation. I think you're just insecure. Sometimes I feel like the man in a porno turns me on if he has a bigger penis than mine of if I feel like he is more attractive than me, but in the real world, when I'm in a locker room or bro-hugging one of my male friends I'm totally flaccid and genuinely disinterested. I find gay porn totally nasty, although sometimes I'll get curious and watch bi porn. But eventually I realize that I just don't like it as much. Sometimes I wish I were bi, just because I'm more familiar with men and how they behave, but judging by my experiences and feelings in real life situations I really don't think I am. Now that I am more secure about who I am I find myself feeling more secure about my sexuality and thinking about women, just women, all the time. Click on my username and check out my story, some guy gave me really good advice.

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  • MilleBornes

    agree with quentari. Unless you feel bi, or homo, then you're straight. Men, to other men are repulsive somewhat, so while choosing porn, if I have to look at dick and balls then I'm not going to be made to look at nasty dick and balls lol.

    As a male, when aroused, we would probably bed ANY woman. We are naturally attracted to women, so fat, skinny, height, race, two legs, one, etc they have what we want. If you only admire an in shape male, no matter how aroused you are, then you're doing just that. Admiring a fine physique.

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