Am i his rebound? is it normal?

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The man I'm with now broke up with his partner of 5 years 5 months ago and we met 5 months ago. He ghosted her said it was easier and she had fibromyalgia and he said it was too much to handle.

Anyway he got with me we were friends for like a month then we have been dating for almost 4 months. I said love you to him and he said he couldn't say it yet needs more time. I said take all the time you need.

I noticed him one night I came up from behind him walking past the couch he was on his ex's page. I ignored it.

But Then I noticed his YouTube likes. Most of them aren't really about love.. they're actually making fun of love even satirical songs about how "you say you love me and I love you too but I could say that to anyone" and "you don't have to find the one just settle for someone who cares" and a video from a movie about Some guy saying I want more time with you please don't go I miss you (to his ex)

We cuddle kiss hug laugh this is my first relationship ever. But we don't really talk about the future at all like even for fun..its almost like it's temporary but maybe that's me thinking it???

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago | pl

    This relationship is temporary. If he can ghost someone with a serious medical condition, there's nothing stopping him from doing it to you.

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    He sounds like an immature dick, and you sound like a teenage girl who's desperate to believe she's found The One straight off the bat.

    Which is odd, because the onset of fibromyalgia is usually in middle-age, and that suggests you're both mature adults.

    I assume there are the positive things about your relationship, so enjoy them, but don't let your hopes get too high and don't invest too heavily in him. Also, be prepared for him to immediately vanish without a trace if you should ever be unfortunate enough to be diagnosed with some chronic health problem.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    He sounds like he is still really into his ex. I would start casting my net. Lots of other fish in the sea.

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