Am i going gay for my coach or something?

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I'm a male, 18, definately into girls. My school was in need of a new track coach, so they now have a 26 yr old dude. He's a wicked good runner and all the chicks find him cute. I don't know why or what this feeling is but I feel like I must ask every question and know everything about him and must be around him (i think that's partially because all the other coaches don't like me for something that happened in the past). Am I going gay for my coach or something? I'm not gay, not into male genitals and im not sexually attracted to him but, this feels homosexual. What is this? For example, at one of our meets, the fact he noticed how hard I tried, made my day or when the team does tag the day after a meet to keep our muscles going I must always purposely linger around for him to chase me down, but I think that's because no one bothers chasing me because they can't get me... What's going on? I know re reading this I feel this story doesn't make sense but I don't know what it is. Im asking seriously...

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  • Techfreak14
    12 years ago

    Your forming a good relationship with him. You may have even started loving him not in a gay way, but in a fatherly way. Do you feel this way about your father too? Because if so, think of it as the love you have for your father.

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    • thatdumbkid
      12 years ago

      haha my father can't stand me.

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      • JustDave
        12 years ago

        You're not gay. You're seeking the approval and acceptance of a role model.

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  • Ono
    12 years ago

    Sounds like a plain old man crush. Nothing to worry about. Doesn't mean you're gay.

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    Maybe u just admire him...

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    What happened to make the other coaches hate you?

    Just because you like another guy doesn't make you gay. It sounds like you admire him.

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    • thatdumbkid
      12 years ago

      The coaches hate me because a year ago, I woke up one morning with the left side of my face over swelled up and went to the doctor, he gave me medecines and stuff and told me to stay away from school because bacterial infections makes you labeled "contaminated". My doctor called and faxed the school to make sure they know I have it and that I wuldn't be back for at least a week and I was on the teams 4x800 relay and I missed 2 meets because of the infection... I was sick and stuff, you would think that would be a good enough excuse...

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      • Avant-Garde
        12 years ago

        They sound like jerks!

        People get infections. It's understandable to be scared of someone for it, but not to literally hate them. Would they have honestly preferred for you to come to those relays with the risk of "infecting" everyone?!

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        • Techfreak14
          12 years ago

          It is not your fault that you got an infection. And I am surprised that your choach(s) did not understand this and act the way they did.

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          • thatdumbkid
            12 years ago

            im in a way not surprised. they always do this kind of stuff...

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  • rin
    12 years ago

    role model?

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  • Yuki-Okami
    12 years ago

    That's not gay in any way.

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  • spoon4d
    12 years ago

    I was going to ask a similar question about Bear Grylls, but now I know it's just man crush. If I really think of it, then yeah I do admire him.

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  • diddlyo
    12 years ago

    Not trying to add on anything odd (im a girl) but this is so fucking cute!

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  • thatdumbkid
    12 years ago

    No, that's nasty. why do you keep talking about his junk? My sister does, that, she always talks about her husbands junk in front of people, she says it just shows how much she likes it, do u like it or something?

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      Hey you are the one asking about going homosexual or not, I am just trying to help you out.

      If you cant handle the truth about being gay then you shouldnt be asking the question.

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  • loobylou
    12 years ago

    u ain't gay don't worry

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Bromance. You has it.

    Or in polite terms, you have a male role model you admire. It doesn't mean you want to suck his cock but you want to be like him and be friends with him. so you find yourself hanging out with him more or wanting to be around him more.

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    Man crush big time.

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