Am i gay? what should i do?

Lately I started noticing something that I find strange. I am only ever really completely turned on when it's two guys going at it. I think it's so sexy. I then image what it would be like to "take" a man. I think it would feel so fantastic, and want to try it at least once. I'm totally fine with being gay. But there's only one other problem. I'm a girl, and I enjoy being a girl. I only want to be a man during sex sometimes.
I'm not sure if this is just me over glorifying it, or a cause of me being a Sadist. I think that you can't ever dominate someone when you're dependent on them pleasing you during sex.
I know I don't want a sex change because I like being with a guy like that. And I know I'm not lesbian because I hate a majority of women. But a strap on won't work either because I want to FEEL it. I know this isn't normal, but does anyone have any ideas?

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  • cougar

    Normal normal normal!!!!!!! Not gay!!! Very normal. Have fun with it

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  • screaminasian

    strap that thing on!

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  • Jen118584

    Normal, I TOTALLY wish I could have a dick for a day.

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  • lycrayum

    i would love you to use a strap on on me...... you can buy them 'two-sided' so you can get pleasure too..... i know u can't feel it the same way but you would get all the movement sensations and i reckon you could really have fun with it - give it a go.i have received only once, but would love to receive again

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    • lycrayum

      oh good luck and tell us all how you get on

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  • NorisBboris

    Pff please. Serious sexual issues. I don't think its serious at all. I think many women feel this way! I have and I know others that do as well. I don't think its envy necessarily for everyone so much as CURIOSITY.

    I've used a strap on before and it doesn't 'do it for me'. I'm just kind of in-different to it really. I'm curious about how it would feel if I were a man but if I'm getting off I'd rather be penetrated personally.

    I think you ARE normal and don't listen to the ol' 'you need counseling' posts. If it becomes an OBSESSION then ok..but I'm thinking you just have a general curiosity and yo..I'm a girl and I think its hot to watch two guys gettn' it on..mhm. Why is it alright for a man to watch two women and get turned on but not the other way around?

    DOUBLE STANDARD..gr.

    Anywho..NORMAL!

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  • WhiteSheepOfTheFamily

    Have you looked into BDSM? It's not as freaky as you might think, and for some people it's a healthy, safe way of venting certain urges which can become dangerous if repressed.

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  • Yeah, I love being a guy and I don't see why anyone would switch what they have but I have wondered what it would be like to have a vagina for a day. Of course I'm such a homophobe it would only be enjoyed with other women but I have had that question before.

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  • Tyfictionalboy

    Normal but if it gets too serious then that's not cool, sorry

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  • Loki96

    I feel the same way dude trust me :(

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  • WolfwithKitten

    The same goes for me almost exactly. But good news for us is that sciencetist are working on some thing a straight couple could use to switch genders temporarily for sex. I'm not shor how far in development it's in, but they're working on it. :)

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  • mojoindica

    Well boys like to watch two women

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  • olivia82

    It's normal. I feel like a gay boy sometimes. There is a huge gay community on youtube....check it out.

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  • Murasaki

    I don't think this issue is anything to do with sexual polarity - you are straight, but you obviously need to feel empowered and "dominate" something and then only time you get to see a man being penetrated and dominated is when another guy is doing it (because of the penis requirement). So basically this is a case of penis-envy.

    You say a strap on won't work - have you tried one? You may think it wont work, but all you may need is the look of pain in your partner's face (even ask them to act if you wish). And really, to get out your fantasy, you'll need a very willing and very trusting partner.

    Methods aside, I do think that you need to see a specialist to talk about your sexuality. This is how serial killers start - the need to "feel" the domination and then completing it with a knife or other method. If you don't get help or methods to excert your feelings, you might completely ruin your sex life and it may cause you to look for domination in other aspects of your life (indeed, it may be a power inbalance in your life which may be causing you to feel the need to dominate). You say you believe that sexual partners can't dominate, so you're never going to really get that feeling of domination while you hold this mindset - you may to abandon it altogether (it's perfectly acceptable for one partner to receive and the other to give).

    Whatever the case, you are not gay. You are a girl with some serious sexual issues who needs to find an outlet before it gets complicated.

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  • callo

    well tou your question, youre not gay, coz your a girl and you dont like girls. sounds like you fantasise about being dominant etc etc, and apart from a strap on to "take" a man, i dont think theres anything that will make you "feel it", because those are the parts you were given.
    maybe you could just get off on seeing the strap on destroy your man

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  • Jennalee

    Wow that is pretty weird xD LOL

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  • Thts not natural it's supposed to be man and women:)

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