Am i gay or straight or bi?

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Hi,
I don't know what I am. Sometimes I think that maybe I'm supposed to be gay. I've never had "great" sex or sex with anyone that made me want to do it again over and over.. and I don't get attracted to guys as often as "normal" girls. I once had a crush on this girl, it was pretty strong and I thought about her all the time and cried cause she wasn't available. Then I met this girl.. she's straight but she slept in my bed a lot and we hugged and rubbed our feet (cause her feet were cold) and she said if it was possible she would get married to me, but never have sex, lol I had a crush on her but it was minor. But the thing is, with girls it's always been so easy.. most of my friends refer to me as their "boyfriend", I'm mostly a tomboy and things like that. If I hang out with a girl, I make sure she's safe before I go home.. How do I know what I really am? P.S; I've never had any sexual experience with a girl and the thought of it is not exactly appealing to me.

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  • OldUserWhoHasReturned
    9 years ago

    If you ever have to ask this question, 95% of the time you're bi.

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  • mountain-man82
    9 years ago

    Youre probably bi curious.

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  • ToTheMoonAndBack
    9 years ago

    I am in the EXACT same situation as you! Except we are planning on kissing and stuff...but I'm pretty sure I'm bisexual, but labels don't even matter do what feels right.

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    • anie154
      9 years ago

      Are you male or female? And who is this person you're planning to do this stuff with?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    It's pretty tough for a 12 year old to understand all this confusing stuff, like sex. It will get easier a you get older. You'll be doing it OK when you are old enough, but not everyone matures at the same rate, so don't worry if you are a late bloomer.

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  • fullhouse
    9 years ago

    Why do u even need to label it? Sleep or hve a relationship with anyone ur attracted to.

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  • anie154
    9 years ago

    but then how do I figure this out to know for sure?

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    • disthing
      9 years ago

      You don't, necessarily. There's no easy way. The trick is to just to be comfortable with your sexuality however blurred the lines are.

      If you're unsure, you could simply identify as bisexual - that way you don't burn any bridges. If later on you realise you're exclusively one way or the other, so be it. If you never quite work it out, who cares?

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        9 years ago

        very helpful

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