Am i fully lesbian or bisexual?

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I'm a girly girl and I'm really into Feminine girls. I've had sex with 2 girls. Ever since I was little I would crush on girls. In 6th grade I had crushes on 8th grade girls and would fantasize being in a relationship with them. In 8th grade, I came out as "bi" and had my first girlfriend and my first heartbreak we dated for 2 years. After that, I would try to mess around with guys. I find guys attractive by their face and body. But, I never fantasize about having sex with a man or giving him oral. When I fantasize sexually It's always girls! I don't mind a guy giving me pleasure I know that's bad lol, but I don't get turned on by dick ever? When I'd talk to a guy for months I never have got hurt emotionally and I never wanted to have sex with them or anything to do with their dick, but I've kissed guys, gotten fingered by a guy and small stuff like sucking on my boobs lol. A girl I talked to for a week I had so much feelings for already and was so hurt when we just stopped talking for a week. I still fantasize about her! My friends say I'm confused but It's been a long time. People say I'm not full lesbian because I've fucked around with guys. What do you think?

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  • modernism
    8 years ago

    In my opinion, it sounds like you're just lesbian. Just because you have had your experiences with guys before, doesn't mean you were attracted to them on a deeper level.

    Just because you acknowledge male beauty doesn't make you bi - if you were turned on by it, then yes.

    Can you imagine yourself legitimately happy with a girl? Can you imagine yourself legitimately happy with a guy? If both, then you're bi. If only with a girl, then you're lesbian.

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  • DasterlyDiglet
    8 years ago

    I believe you're bi. If you were just platonically invested into guys, I'd say you were a lesbian.

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  • theFinder
    8 years ago

    You're probably a lesbian. You've fallen for girls (and only girls) before and haven't really felt any kind of excitement when with a guy, so what's the question? Besides, you also started to have fantasies with girls at such a young age, when your head still wasn't messed up with puberty and other kinds of sexuality issues teens usually have; meaning, your behaviour from when you were younger is actually kind of a clue to it.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Does it matter? Forget the labels

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  • 213
    8 years ago

    you are strictly confused

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    you are something else!

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