Am i crazy in love or just plain crazy?

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I've known this guy most of my life, even our families know each other. I never really talked to him up until a year and a half ago. I started getting really close with him...it became sexual, and I guess it led to friends with benifits. So he would only invite me over to his house at night. Anyways, I didn't like it because I fell inlove. We have been on and off this entire time, I've told him how I felt a lot, in detail. Yet he still texts me after I tell him never to contact me agian because it hurts... I've even tried ignoring the texts but I can't help myself : (
Currently I feel angry, sad, hopless, happy, in love, hatred, etc. I'm really confused about my feelings. I feel like I've gone crazy, I think about him all the time. I feel like I obsess over him. I don't stalk him though =P but, anyways it's kind of hard to explain how I'm feeling, I feel so angry at him and myself for allowing this to happen. I feel like he's torching me...

Has anyone felt this way before or have I gone crazy?

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Based on 30 votes (22 yes)
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  • iamandam
    13 years ago

    hahaha ^

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  • Korq
    13 years ago

    Poor dude just wanted to get laid. Good job at making it weird.

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  • supaflyafro
    13 years ago

    i love sum1 i cant go out with and its still happening now. been happening for a week now. it sux. never shoulda met het cuz she makes me feel heartbroken

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    • supaflyafro
      13 years ago

      shes also a good friend

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  • southernbarbie16
    13 years ago

    I went through the same thing a couple of years ago and wondered the same things. It turns out, it IS very normal. But it's also very painful. Hang in there, it will all work out sooner or later.

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  • kamilion
    13 years ago

    i guess this means he wouldn't officially date you and be your boyfriend. if he thinks he can still get sex from you just by doing the same things, harassing. or using lines on you, it wont happen as long as you don't let him.

    don't feel so bad. most people fall in love for the wrong reasons. people fall in love with people who don't love them back all the time. you only learn form your mistakes but this time its hard because your emotions are learning too.

    look on the bright side. you can't have love with out heart break. there's no rose without a thorn so to speak.

    change your number and avoid him. eventually show him you don't care by walking right by him and not showing any reaction.

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  • almostunreadable
    13 years ago

    You love him because he treats you this way. He knows he mustn't be good to you otherwise you would stop being in love and refuse to give him sex. He knows you well (you said even your families know each other) so he acts accordingly.

    Almost forgot to add - what should you do? Well there is nothing you can do, you already went too far. Enjoy while it lasts, after all it is better that you have intimacy with him who you and your family know, than with some unknown guy. He is doing you a favor.

    Anyway I voted not normal although it's common. Perhaps I'm wrong in this one, but don't worry, soon you'll probably get more support from other members of IIN.

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