Am i controlling?

I would take him to a addiction place. Porn addiction is a thing and it ruins lives. I'm glad porn doesn't do much for me

It’s actually a myth that porn causes ED. There is zero concrete evidence to prove this is true. It’s more likely your smelly vagina that is making him soft.

You're not being controlling. He's looking at women he doesn't know online and flooding himself with dopamine that will sap him of motivation and good moods, as he experiences easy, effortless pleasure consistently, he will become numbed. Just like an opiate- another flood of dopamine that he will become dependent on, as it will be harder to let go of. P0rnography is often degrading to women, and makes sex an object or an action rather than a tender interaction- it really ruins romance. It pushes the boundaries, and trafficked children and adults have been found on p0rnhub, as there are no regulations to upload- this includes r4pe. I read a case of this happening, a missing girl was found on there.
It erodes values- it started off as photos in magazines, then full on nudes, then sexual actions, then ACTUAL torture, like beating and electrocution, and near incest, with the step-bro/ step-mom fetishes- next, we will see our men flooded with genuine incest and torture. Many of the models pose as minors, and dress to look that way too, picked for their features.
There has been a rise in cases of 'sex games gone wrong' in which many women have died, and sex in which the men spit on women and beat them, as this media has given them the impression that all women are ok with that because porn says so. Just look it up on the BBC.
Your husband is more likely to become a cross dresser too- people who get off to porn of the female body are more likely to associate the female body with pleasure, and therefore get off on crossdressing- or cucking themselves, as they learn to get off watching another man with a desirable woman, instead of being with the woman.
Most Western males these days are exposed to porn at the age of 11- before a first kiss, their eyes are flooded with 'slut gets nailed/peed on', whatever. This changes the perception of healthy sex. Notice how slang about sex has changed too?
It used to be 'rumpy pumpy' and 'making love'- now, we have violent terms, like 'bang', 'screw', 'smash'. Porn has completely polluted healthy sexuality.
Furthermore, your internet service provider can see the data packages/information going in and out of phones. Privacy is an illusion. If you're American, remember that the NSA has a backdoor to your devices. Tell him this.

I wouldn't say you're controlling. What he does sucks. Porn does take away the spice from a relationship.

What you did is normal and expected. After all, you deserve to be happy and satisfied too. And as your husband, he should be there for you.

I would never substitute my girlfriend for porn XD
I like the real deal way too much.

You don't seem controlling to me.

Just lock him in chastity, it is the only real therapy for his illness!!

He may well actually be using it to overcome performance anxiety or some problem with his dick. A lot of dick problems are psychological.

Real pussy is way better than porn; I can't see why he would be watching it other than why he states he is. Honestly, if he is watching for that reason then I bet he feels really humiliated with you moaning at him about it.

whats with the last sentence that contradicts the resta the post?

what happened? did he stop with the porn? did yall nag him into submission? is he watchin more porn? takin boner pills? eatin soup madea tiger dicks? what the fuck?

this whole thing makes no sense

Porns disgusting tbh it's a last resort for me I put my own imagination above that and the imagination is a powerful thing..maybe by spicing up things in the bedroom you don't always have to be completely naked try taking control, riding him in your best,fanciest bra, or making him move your panties aside to fuck you, just in general a lot of foreplay can be great for you and him

Sounds like he is a pussy! He needs to be a man and fuck you like a man should.

Maybe you are the dominant one in the relationship and he is more feminine. Just punch him in the face then grab his dick and tell him to fuck you, maybe a good rage fuck might help things.