Am i concieted?

Well first off me and my sister were adopted and I was her real blood sister and well I had another sister but she's still there, they could only take me and my sister. Well she had a brain tumor so she died young... at 11, but I didn't cry (i was 10). I also had another sister she's like 7 years old. Well she drowned I think that was my fault cause I was watching tv and well my brother came in through the back door and left it open, well I was to busy and so my sister ran out the door and ended up drowning in the pool, but I still didn't cry. My Grandma and Grandpa died as well, I wasn't to emotionally attached to them so I didn't really care, or at least i felt that way, but I still didn't cry. But I did cry when my computer's motherboard died, am I just conceited or something? I feel nothing when people die around me...

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  • IveGotBallsOfSteal

    You're not conceited. You're emotionaly detached and maybe a few marbles are loose upstairs? Sounds like you've had a rough life and should seek therapy. Doesn't mean you're a bad person though, you're just not really in touch with reality.

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  • laceandwhatnot

    Emotionally detached. Honestly, it sounds very creepy. But you may also be acting like that because that is how you deal with intense situations. Death is intense. Do you cry about anything at all?? I would talk to a psychiatrist.

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  • princesscrapbag

    you are not conceited.
    I suggest you invest in a dictionary

    con·ceit·ed   [kuhn-see-tid] Show IPA
    adjective
    1.
    having an excessively favorable opinion of one's abilities, appearance, etc.
    2.
    Archaic .
    a.
    having an opinion.
    b.
    fanciful; whimsical.
    3.
    Obsolete . intelligent; clever.

    sounds to me you are a sociopath or someone with a questionable moral compass

    you were too busy watching tv and you let your sister drown? you're either a liar or a pretty horrible person.

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  • DiscoDuck

    I have to agree you are Heartless...

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  • bruhjay1

    yur not concieted when my grandpa died i didnt cry because i wasnt emotionally attached to him i dont remember wat her looks like and i rarly think of him its completley normal not to cry yur copletly normal

    BUT YU ARE HEARTLESS...

    yur brother and sister died i think this is complete bull shit yur a lier /=

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  • dheelovesherself

    yur not concieted ; i think yu juss dont care about anybody ; that isnt normal i think its harsh and crasy no affense ;;

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  • somethingclever

    I think you just block out the feelings so you don't have to deal with them. Alot of people do after the live through or witness something tragic. Eventually the come to terms with their feelings and move on.

    You seem to be able to repress these feelings indefinitely, which means eventually the part of you that holds those feelings back will be overloaded and you'll feel everything 10 times worse.

    But if you never feel sympathy for others and you could care less if someone got hit by a car in front of you, you definitely need to see someone about it.

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  • Guess_Who

    I don't get it. Well, I don't expect to 'nways.. I think you're just too materialistic. Things are more important to you than a LIFE of a person. I mean, c'mon.. Your sister? That's tragic. Maybe if you found your soulmate & if he/she dies, then maybe u'll understand. Someday, hopefully. Goodluck.. o.O

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  • jt1330

    it is easy to push back how we really feel about things. not crying about something tramatic is normal. you are not weird for repressing your feelings about the things that have happened in your life.

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  • goodgirl20

    some people are afraid to cry over such things. Listen to a song called "Stand in the Rain" by SuperChic(k)...a line in it says "...she fears if she cries that first tear, the tears will not stop raining down"... But do you at least "feel" horrible bout it possibly bein ur fault that she drowned? If not...maybe you should start praying or if you dont believe in that..see a doc or sumtin..but i, myself, hate crying...but i do when its due if someone dies..i just hate crying in front of people. Like my BFFs mom died almost a year ago and when i found out..i couldnt cry..i was soo in shock that i just couldnt get the tears out. But when i went to bed that night i cried for hours. I jus hate cryin in public.

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  • luffymaxxie

    Your not concited your heartless.....

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    • ArchAngelAzrael123

      not true, just because someone can't cry doesn't mean ther're heartless. he is probably really tough and can handle things really well. but i can say this on thing. even the toughest men do cry.

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  • konohasempu

    I know what it's like not to cry after someone close to me died but that was because I was so beyond tears I couldn't. Crying when your computer's motherboard died? I can't even try to explain that

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  • Drakov3

    I meant real blood Brother >:(

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    • Hekate

      I honestly don't know - swrry. I don't think you are. maybe you just weren't attached to them or maybe it's hard for you to cry.

      ~Hekate

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