Am i bisexual? please answer me!

People thing way too much. We aren't straight gay or bi. We're somewhere on a spectrum from straight to bi. If you like someone go for it, if not, don't read too much into your intense feelings for friends. No one knows how you feel but you.

there is nothing wrong and alot of people will try and tell you others wise im ridiculed at my school for liking ladies and fellas but it doesnt matter thats a totally natural thing even if its just curiosity it doesnt matter

it's normal...wait for some time. it's normal to question one's sexuality during adolescence...

Why exactly are you concerned? It sounds like you are bisexual. But so what? Women in general form and need stronger attachments to their own sex.

To carry this attachment to a physical, sexual, emotional level is a natural thing.

Question is can you find a man and a woman and form a long term relationship with both?

yes its normle too feel that way during those times in your life i had those too for guys and im a guy but not its all about girls lol.

you are a poof....trust me Luv...

Hey :)

I think it's normal to be curious, and I know as a female, we tend to have more emotional attachments to other females, and that sometimes these can get confused for sexual feelings. Maybe they are, maybe they're not. Have you ever dated another female? Maybe you're just attracted to the beauty of females, because lets face it....generally, females are a lot easier on the eyes! Maybe try dating a girl, or kissing a girl and see if you have sexual feelings towards her. Good luck!

I think every one is i know i love sucking dick just as much as i love licking pussy

Everyone at some point in their adolescence will wonder what it feels like to be with someone the same sex as themselves, this is how people become diverse! So if you asked me I would say it was just a natural part of life!:) whether you do anything past the thinking that determines sexuality!:) thoughts are nothing without actions :) hope I helped!

dont worry about it as long as your happy who cares what others think about it

You could be bisexual or straight with some bi-tendencies. Studies have shown that almost all women have bisexual tendencies. As far as what you call yourself don't worry about it :). Labels aren't important after all you are who you are even if you don't know who you are. I'd do some experimenting if I were you women are very sensual and know all the "good spots" while on the other hand there is nothing quite like being penetrated by a good sized penis. You may find you prefer one or the other or maybe you like both :). Don't worry though you are perfectly normal, I'd be more worried about the person who doesn't question their sexuality at some point in thier life.

Try it out with a girl and see what you think

i know exactly what you mean about getting strange feelings around older girls
when i was younger i would get really weird feelings about certain older girls, i guess it was sexual but i really cant explain it
i also question my sexuality now. i really have no idea either

Half these replies are so sad I want to cry.

There IS such a thing as bi, but it doesn't necessarily mean you'll bone anything that moves. I love the gays. Have tons of gay friends in various places on the scale, but ultimately YOU are the one who decides what you are. Not some stupid teeny bopper on this site whose still a virgin. So just don't bother with labels. Try out what feels right for you. Stay true to yourself. Good luck.

Short answer - you're probably straight, hormones do a lot of weird stuff at that age. But it's entirely possible that you're 98% straight and have the occasional thought about your own gender - that happens. Gay/bi/straight are just unreliable labels, real peoples' sexualities are far more complicated.

what ever your age is ,diciding if u or gay bi,can take a while,is any one rushing your choice,hell with them, u decide who u are at your time of choice.its your live.

Def normal... I feel the same wayz I wanna see how it feels and how it lookz

I think there are a lot of straight girls out there that are somewhat attracted to other girls because they're just so darn pretty ya get a little jealous.

Haha your bi.. Jk it's normal to be interested in girls and as katy Perry says.. I kissed a girl and I liked it... Hehe

Humans love to put labels on sexuality, when in fact there are so many different degrees.

A woman can be straight, but still feel attracted at times to another woman. Does that make her bi? Maybe yes, maybe no. What is attraction, really? Is it just about the physical parts of a persons body? No, often we are attracted to people simply because they represent a part of ourselves, or a part of our past that we want to remember, or that we need to deal with.

But if you are bi ... is that such a terrible thing? I mean, you are still you and it doesn't change much really.

yur bi.....

Well you could always try it out, to see if you enjoy it. And yes it is quite normal to have these feelings. I am a married man and I have thoughts about being with a She-male sometimes. Not sure if that is normal but I don't *beep*ing care LOL Life is short have fun. ;)

in this day and age, it's normal. I blame this sort of confusion on our society, liking someone, loving some and having sex with someone are all very different but it seems so common today to want to say they're all the same thing.

Aw fuck yeah you're normal, fuck the haters homie. I got the same problem sorta, I've only done sexual stuff with girls like online, never met em face to face, I'm too scared and I have no idea how you approach the topic. But because I haven't done anything in the real world cept kiss my best friend once and it was stupid and quick, I question myself if I am or not. But yeah, you're normal.

i hate gay guys i like lesbians sort of but don't aprove i like girl on guy it seems better to me sorry

It's normal to have these feelings. You should really look into the information that's out there regarding sexual orientation.

Have you heard of something called the Kinsey scale? Seriously, look into it.

Also, you could be bisexual. Most bisexual people prefer one gender over the other.

Remember that there are many other orientations out there besides gay, straight, or bi. For example, I'm pansexual. Just evaluate your feelings honestly. You'll find the truth and remember there are many organizations out there that can help.

i find boys and girls both attractive (i'm a girl btw) seeing naked girls and what not turns me on, but just the thought of actually having personal sexual experiences with one makes me gag...kinda weird, but idk i guess everyone has twisted hormones that give us an attraction to the same sex at some point or another... doesn't make us bi, gay, straight, or twisted, i c it as a normal quality

I like girls and boys..

I think you would only be bi-sexual if you felt sexually attracted to women. A lot of young girls and adolescents get "girl-crushes". You get it a lot in boarding schools and all girls schools where it's a way of releasing feelings of affection etc. It doesn't mean anything happens though. It's more that you admire them and aspire to be like them. I had girl crushes when I was younger and during my last few years at school girls had girl crushes on me. None of us were bi-sexual or lesbians.

You are not gay or bi...please dont think this. These feeling are quite normal but thats all they are is thoughts and feelings this does not mean u have to act on them especially if u believe they are morrally wrong.

you could just be curious... i first found out when i started snogging my girl friends and then snogging my guy friends lol !

you should try kissing a girl..then u will know !

Label yourself as someone who seeks the full enjoyment of life. You dont have to be gay or straight, being Bi aint all that bad its like the best of both worlds if you ask me...

Sorry I meant people THINK way too much.

there nothing with being bisexual being bi is ok to be, express to feel comfortable that way and knowing me i got nothing against bi ppl my friends are bi and it nothing wrong about it, dont think it a bad thing, just be yourself

hey sweeetie

naah i know how ya feel, its easy people saying its normal, but sometimes it doesnt feel that way, but it honestley, its fine!
and plus you might just be curiouse? forget about lableing yourself, the fun of life is finding out who you are :)

Why even bother with labels? If you like chicks then it's okay and if you like men then it's okay. I am 80 %% attracted to males 60 %% with females like I am bisexual but my attraction to males are stronger and in the lond run I want to be with a guy but I will date a girl. I really don't even label myself "bisexual" as much as I just label myself "sexual" to all genders, race and everything.

its normal. but on whether or not you're bi.. i can't answer.. you have to figure it out for yourself really. i have friends that are lesbians that are attracted to some guys and might even sleep with them, but consider themselves to be gay, and somestraight friends that are attracted to the same gender and might even sleep with them(usually celebrities).. i think theres just something about certain people that make us feel an attraction towards them. like maybe they're really pretty or something? :P

you mghit be going through a phase,hormones have a lot to do with it, but it could've been something that happenned to you when you were little as well. things work weirdly like that.

i think its pretty normal cuz ur hormones are going crazy and girls are sometimes attracted to other girls cuz they are just pretty and sensual and im straight but when i was in highschool i hooked up with a few chiks and it felt different i kno i wouldnt wanna be with a chik i just wanted to see what it was all about.. just see what happens but alota ppl i knew were "bi" back then cuz they were confused and ya its pretty normal

Well, you don't really have to identify yourself as anything if you're not comfortable doing so. Some people like saying they're specifically one thing, but sexuality is fluid for many people, and they find their sexual preferences change over time or very hard to define, and that's fine too.
Also, it's perfectly normal to have feelings for both genders but have a preference for one over the other: google the Kinsey Scale if you haven't heard of it :)

NO SUCH THING AS BI-SEXUAL

I would say you are simply learning who you are. Don't label yourself as bisexual. I'm straight and I've had many thoughts of being with girls and having sex with girls. But in the end, thats against God's will. and Girls can't give you real intercoarse. God mad Adam for Eve. Not Adam for another Adam or Eve for another Eve. Stay with guys.