Am i bisexual?

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I have always identified as straight, but recently I'm questioning this a little bit. I'm a girl, 18 years old, and I've never had a real boyfriend before, but I know for sure that I'm attracted to men. However, I find myself thinking about girls more than about guys, this might just be because I have girl friends and generally don't talk to guys as much, but I tend to develop "crushes" more in girls. It's weird because while these "crushes" are just like a regular crush (wanting to see them all the time, thinking about them a lot, getting excited/nervous when I do see them), it often reaches the point of infatuation I have never thought about another girl sexually or really thought about having a romantic relationship with a member of the same sex. I would think it was just a platonic crush, a "squish" lol, but it feels just the same as a crush crush.. Also, I often find myself admiring other girls' looks and staring at them if I find them physically attractive, but not thinking anything sexual, just admiring their beauty (I know that sounds weird) afterwards I always find myself wondering if that's normal to stare at other girls, and also develop what feels just exactly like having a romantic crush (just without the romantic feelings). I don't really care about labels too much and if I'm bi then that's great if I'm not then that's great too, i just want to know if this is normal for other (straight) girls to think this way (or bi or lesbian girls if you want to input too!)

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  • Ipooprainbows
    8 years ago

    I think its normal. I think a lot of straight girls stare/check out other females on a regular basis but some just don't question why they're doing it. Personally I do it because I love to admire a beautiful person. However, I think I'm a bit bi- curious as I have wondered what it would be like to kiss a girl. I don't have sexual thoughts when staring at them either and I do not know if actual hard core lesbians or bi girls think sexual thoughts or just simply think they're attractive or hot or what ever. To answer your question- You may be a little leaning towards the bi side but you will never really know unless u tried something. Good luck !

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    Just explore the possibilities and enjoy the ride labels don't matter at all as long as you are happy with your choices and you can't make choices unless you know what you like.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Is a horse a canine?

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    • anti-hero
      8 years ago

      No equine, why do you ask?

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  • jimdog
    8 years ago

    I read the first sentence, your bent.

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  • Berenice66
    8 years ago

    Hey, I'm bisexual and I know exactly what you mean. I too admire other girls beauty, but I started feeling like "butterflies" and attraction to one girl, so I gathered I was bisexual because I have felt the same with boys. I think the best thing would be to wait and see how it goes, maybe it's a phase, maybe you're just curious, or maybe you are. Just let time do what it does best. Try to stay calm and don't tell anyone or just someone you REALLY trust until you're sure.

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    • Poes
      8 years ago

      I concur, remain calm and ride it out...what must be will be, if not another time maybe?

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  • snarkygirl
    8 years ago

    Do you want to kiss any of these chicks or play with their pussy. If so you're probably bi. If not, no.

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  • Poes
    8 years ago

    You say you like staring at other girls, is this in the locker room when they naked or just in general?

    Have you found yourself staring at their pussy`s and thinking that I would love to lick that? Or at their breasts and think I would love to suck and nibble that?

    or have you just found yourself staring at them in general and wondered how it would feel to kiss them?

    Your statement above does not give enough information thus these questions, please answer truthfully as I cannot judge your orientation on the information you have provided...

    By the way, I am male, I am married, have been for the last 35 years and find myself thinking about sucking other men`s dicks quite often, I thus consider myself to be Bi-sexual.

    I am not interested in kissing them or fucking them in the arse, i only want to suck their dicks until they cum in my mouth!

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    • jimdog
      8 years ago

      I consider myself as straight as an arrow... I would rather kiss a man than suck his smelly wang.

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      • Poes
        8 years ago

        The only man you may kiss in your life is your father, other men are under no circumstances to be kissed, suck their dick by all means and let them suck yours for good measure, but do not kiss them, I repeat no Kissing under any circumstances whatsoever!

        Hell you may even fuck them in their arse, but no kissing!

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    • jimdog
      8 years ago

      That's pretty queer, like it's definitely gay-er that you want to suck their penis as opposed to putting your old weiner in their bums... Have you sucked a smelly sausage before or just the homo fantasies?

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      • Poes
        8 years ago

        Well Jimdog, you seem to be telling me that you live in a trailer park somewhere...you say that you have a smelly sausage? My God man have you not heard of soap and water where you come from from?

        My dick is clean as a whistle and never smells, i was circumcised as a baby and have no foreskin covering my dick, that may well be the reason why yours smells, go for a circumcision today my good man and you too may have a healthy un-smelly dick!

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  • Rusty-Rider
    8 years ago

    I read the second sentence, you're more bent.

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