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I'm male and I've always considered myself to be straight. However, I'll get sporadic moments where I find men very attractive.
I'm confused as these feelings aren't there all the time, instead they come and go. If I was bisexual, wouldn't the thoughts be there all the time?
Sometimes I wonder if it's just curiosity. Help me, am I bi or not?
Bicurious?
Sexuality is a spectrum, most people fall somewhere between the two poles (heterosexual, homosexual). Bisexuals are rarely perfectly 50/50, and a lot of people find their sexual interests fluctuate throughout their lives.
Bicurious is a good term simply because it denotes a level of uncertainty. That's if you need a label at all.
Hetereoflexible, bicurious, bisexual, questioning, whatever label you like.
Maybe you just otta find some cutie and try it, its the only way to really know thats what i did come to find out i am and im cool with that
Maybe not. Maybe you are a full gay guy. So what? If the opportunity presents itself go for it. just be safe. Good luck, it will all come clear in the future. For now, enjoy every kind of sex that is available.
I don't think many people are 100% straight or 100% gay. You don't have to fit yourself into a box labeled bisexual because you find some men attractive. Not many men are bold enough to admit when they find men attractive unless they call it a "man crush." In this big, wide world almost anyone can find some women or men beautiful no matter what their sexuality is. Just do what feels good to you. If you feel the urge to try it with men then be safe and go for it and enjoy it!
Only one way to find out - just go with it. That's what I did when I wondering. I had my first kiss with a guy when I was 17 and it was lush, so then I was certain! I've ended up tremendously happily married to a woman, but before her I enjoyed my time with men just like I enjoyed my time with other women. Try it out, and then you'll know and can stop worrying!
depends on what you mean by very attractive. do you mean like your actually interested in having sex with them? Could you see yourself spending your life living with another guy? If you can answer yes to either of these then yes, otherwise, not really
Don't be in a rush to define yourself. If people ask you can just be like, I would be "bisexual but my standards are to high" or something. Sex is fun just go out there figure out what attracts you and chase it
No, you're probably bi curious at the moment. I have similar feelings, but mine are more focused on me performing oral sex on a hard penis. Even though I've masturbated to online gay porn on many nights, I think until I actually do the deed, as much as I want to, I'm just bi curious also.
You are what you are, you feel what you feel.
I have read bisexuals state, as disthing writes, that their preference varies or oscillates over time. So it's not abnormal if you sometimes have an interest in the same sex, but other times don't.