Am i bi, or just bi-curious?

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I've been having trouble these past few years trying to figure out whether I'm bi, or just bi-curious...

I know for a fact that I like guys, but it's the girl part that confuses me. I prefer girl-on-girl to guy-on-guy porn and yuri (lesbian) to yaoi (gay) anime. When I'm in chat rooms, I get turned on when a girl tries to hit on me once in a while, but with guys, I just blow them off.

But the thing is, I've never really been attracted to, or had a crush on a girl in real life. With guys? Absolutely. With girls? I don't really look at pretty girl a second time. However, the thought of having sex with a girl sounds much more pleasing to me than doing it with a guy... but I mostly figure it's because there's no pregnancy and little STD issues when it comes to girls. I also feel like there's this sense of security if I do it with a girl... I don't know why, though.

I have an online friend who's my age (18), and has repeatedly expressed interest in me. We've been friends for a while, and the thought of having sex with her is sort of thrilling... I have fantasied about her, but I've never thought about any of my other female friends this way before.

I've been having this trouble ever since I started high school... I sort of feel like I'm bi-curious, but then there's this part of me that thinks I'm bi (Because if I ever do have a girlfriend, I wouldn't just want to be a fxck buddy- I'd want to have an actual relationship with her).

...So can anyone help me out? Am I bi, or just bi-curious?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    I don't think you can be totally sure about these things until you actually try out both and then decide.

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    • ransi777
      12 years ago

      I agree, I'm a guy who found out having sex with another guy with a huge cock is very very satisfying.

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  • Stayf
    12 years ago

    I am going through the same but I think I have figured it out for myself, good luck for you though!

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  • DrinaVonCheez
    12 years ago

    Haha I feel ya on this one. The weird thing is I had this full-on lesbian sex dream & the bitch made me do all the work -__-
    Plus when I ate her out I didn't enjoy it so I woke myself up lol

    If I went lezbo I'd def use a dildo & make my gf eat me out xD

    ...just saying.

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  • randypete
    12 years ago

    It's perfectly normal.

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  • sexyfetish
    12 years ago

    wow im in the same situation...glad to know that people out there have the same thoughts and feelings as me

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  • chickpee
    12 years ago

    your bi curious ! you havent had sex with either a guy or a girl !
    you may think that sex with a guy is hot till you are in the spot and ready to do it, then you may not be able to or
    maybe you will , maybe you wil have sex with this girl and like it too or not.
    GO OUT AND EXPOLOR
    if you enjoy having sex with both guys and girls THEN you are bisexual.
    and for god sakes dont think you cant catch any std's with a guy thats crazy! the only thing you wont do is get him pregnat! lol
    good luck

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  • Attention
    12 years ago

    i think you're bisexual.

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  • beearch
    12 years ago

    most girls are bi anyway. It's perfectly normal.

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  • Smartasscookie
    12 years ago

    I'm not sure, like above poster said ^ try both and see where that leads you, I mean if you can imagine having relationships with girls...pft it doesn't matter too much either way. It's just another label

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  • Hala
    10 years ago

    if u feel u wanna be with her go for it doesn't matter who u r .. u will find out urself it is the time that will answer , thinking abt this is not necessary just do wt u want...

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  • ReoKado
    10 years ago

    You're bi curious till you act upon these actions.

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  • capcrunch6
    11 years ago

    Don't worry you will figure it out eventually.

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  • rick1964
    12 years ago

    try it if you like it youll know

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  • randypete
    12 years ago

    i think you're bisexual dont worry

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  • mcsajon
    12 years ago

    Just enjoy sex while playing safe. You will figure it out.
    Young people can be cruel so be discrete about your activities.

    Good luck!

    Just so you know. I am married,kids and have sucked and been sucked. Would much rather have the spouse have the same appetite for sex as me but she does not so I play with others sometimes.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I totally know how you feel. I guess only time will tell.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    i totaly understand!! i feel like having sex with a girl is gonna be fun. but i never realy look at girls and think of having sex with them. but when i see a hot a guy im like ohh hell! id love to have him in bed with me tonight!!!!!!!!!! plz help!!

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  • LexRex19
    12 years ago

    Be who you are & do what you want.....F*ck what everybody else thinks! I don't know about all this porn & anime stuff lol, but i am pretty much the same way.

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  • DrinaVonCheez
    12 years ago

    But yeaaaaa try it out! You never know.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Why not try it out and see which is gender is your preference?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    well i guess id do what all the other posts say- try both out- the hard part is finding a bi or lesbian girl, actually nvrmnd thats probably the easy part hmm...

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  • crackdispenor
    12 years ago

    just try a girl with a guy at the same time. see wat you like more.

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  • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs
    12 years ago

    Oh for fuck's sake. This question has been asked here 9999999999999999999 times already.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      But not as much as the "INN that I'm a virgin at [insert age here]" one! : )

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      • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs
        12 years ago

        True.

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