Am i being selfish for being angry at my best friend?

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Three weeks ago I planned on seeing Thor with my best friend (who I've known 6 years) and I told him a week in advance. The day of the movie, he changed his mind and said he was going to see it with his dad. I went with my family to see it at another theater, and told him that if any plans changed that he could join us. He didn't end up going because his parents didn't want to go, and he didnt have any money.

Well yesterday, I asked him if he wanted to see Priest next week, and he said "definitely". Just ten minutes ago, he wrote that he was seeing Priest with his family, and didn't even mention it to me. Have you ever had a friend act like this?

I'm going to talk to him what's going after the movie. What should I say?

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  • Queeny
    12 years ago

    People, stop posting questions with other questions within the question and leaving us with a "yes or no" option. SO annoying.

    ...Your friend is being a douche. Confront him.

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  • FourAMandstillgoin
    12 years ago

    You could ask him if something's bothering him. If he's having some family issue or something, your close enough to do that. You care about him right. He might just be blowing you off without thinking about it so be a friend for him. If he's says it's nothing, assume he doesn't care :P.

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    well, its hard to say, but maybe hes having issues with his family.. but on the other hand he could just be an idiot. I wouldnt just fly off the handle and assume the worst necessarily, u could just ask him if hes having family issues that are causing this sort of chaos, if u ask him that way u should be able to tell even if he tries to lie, bcuz u could read the stress if its true,

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  • EbonySheep
    12 years ago

    Friendship is a mutual agreement to value one another, to make each other feel wanted and to be reliable to one another. If you're friend's ignoring you, tell him what he's doing (he may not realize), explain why that's painful for you, and ask him to understand and to change his habits.

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  • Elorria
    12 years ago

    He's a liar.

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