Am i being selfish

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I expect my husband to bring me to orgasm pretty much every day, either orally, using his fingers or using a sex toy on me. But I only let him make love to me on the weekends.

I like him to make me cum most mornings, unless he has to leave really early for work, which usually happens once or twice a week. Then quite often, at least once a week, I insist we go to bed early and he gives me a nice long massage and finishes off by giving me an orgasm. Then I thank him and go to sleep.

Weekends are different. Provided he has kept me satisfied all week, I will let him make love to me as much as he wants from Friday evening until Sunday tea time. After that he has to wait until the following weekend again.

I am too generous to him I should limit his lovemaking further	2
If he is limited to sex on the weekends I should be too	3
I should maintain my expectations but let him make love a bit more often	1
My expectations are perfectly reasonable	0
I sound like a total bitch	9

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a-curious-bunny

3 years ago | pl

-yawns- neat story Bruh. Could use more dragons though

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my_life_my_way

3 years ago

Pretty sure this exact story has been posted before, pretty much word for word. Either way, you sound like a total bitch, women are naturally submissive and give men pleasure. Your husband‘s also a little bitch for just accepting that treatment though, he should stand up to you and force you to have sex with him.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  He actually seems ok with the arrangement. I am definitely the one with the higher sex drive. It’s more about me feeling guilty for wanting so much but giving so little.
  
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  - John671671
    
    2 years ago
    
    If he makes you orgasm every day, why can’t you blow him every time he makes you cum?
    
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Somenormie

3 years ago

Same thing don't care.

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donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

3 years ago

id rather never fuck anyone again than live like him

fuck that noise jack

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XYXY

3 years ago

You shouldn’t be making these decisions. It’s a mans place to make the rules unless he has told you different. I orgasm far more than my husband, several times a day in fact but that is because he wants me to. However, he decides when he wants sex, how he wants sex and where he wants sex. I am expected to oblige or I will be severely punished. He will often instruct me to remove items of clothing in a public place when there is no one about, but a risk of someone coming round the corner and seeing me. That really turns him on. He also loves to bring me to orgasm in public by discretely sliding his hand under my clothes and fingering me, then watching me squirm as I try not to make it too obvious what’s happening. I once tried to stop him, he immediately bent me over lifted up my skirt and spanked my bare arse, he doesn’t allow me to wear knickers. We were in the middle of the street with loads of people around. When he had finished spanking me and once I had calmed down he made me go back to the same place and let him bring me to orgasm.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  If he forces you to have sex when you don’t want to it’s called rape.
  
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  - XYXY
    
    3 years ago
    
    It’s not forced sex. When we married I gave myself to him and promised to obey him.
    
    Think of it like a pupil in school, lets say their next lesson is Maths, they hate Maths and don’t want to go to the lesson, but if they don’t go they will be punished. We don’t consider that to be some sort of abuse, they were punished because they were disobedient. It’s the same thing, if my husband wants me to have sex with him or have an orgasm or whatever then I should obey him in line with my marriage vows. That’s the rules, if I break the rules I should quite rightly expect to be punished. In my case punishment is a good spanking on my bare bottom, once upon a time that sort of punishment was the same in schools, but these days it’s sadly not allowed so teachers have to find other ways but the principal is still the same.
    
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dereknor

3 years ago

Female orgasms are awesome! And that he loves to make you orgasm so much just shows that he loves your orgasms.
I have been in such relationships, too. I loved everything about it, its not selfish a all! Its a huge gift, woman like you are sooo rare.

I think you should even limit his "lovemaking" more.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  In what way should I limit him further? I don’t impose a limit as some sort of punishment, I just can’t be bothered with the whole having him cum inside me. But I do love an orgasm which is why I expect him to give me so many.
  
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  - dereknor
    
    3 years ago
    
    Its no punishment at all! By limiting his lovemaking, you make more room for your orgasms. And he loves your orgasms, too. So you both benefit from it!
    You dont like him cumming in you? Do you like to make him cum at all?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      Not particularly it’s all so messy, but obviously I can’t just stop him from cumming. His sex drive is definitely lower than mine but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to have sex with me at all. Are you suggesting I should limit it more than I already do?
      
      I didn’t set out with it in mind to make him have less sex than me, I just love having an orgasm when I wake up but there just isn’t time for the whole ‘lets make love thing’. Then in the evenings I’m tired and it is nice just to ask him to massage me all over, the trouble is as soon as his hands go near my nipples I get turned on so then I start moaning and the next thing I’m asking him to start fingering me and before I know it I’m having an orgasm. That’s how this all started and things have just evolved from there.
      
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      - dereknor
        
        3 years ago
        
        I had several female-orgasm only relationships. No cumming for me, no penetration sex. And i have a big sexdrive! But making them orgasm was sooo statisfying to me. I totally didnt feel like giving up anything. And it was sooo hard to find women who didnt wanted to make me cum and had the talent to only want to orgasm themself.
        Its just sooo hot to finger and lick a woman to orgasm daily.
        Are your orgasms at the weekend as good as the orgasms on the other days, or is the weekend just for him?
        To be honest, i would love to see you get ALL the orgasms haha
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        3 years ago
        
        I wrote this post because it was playing on my mind that my behaviour is unreasonable. I didn’t actually think anyone would opt for further limiting his lovemaking, I’m not even sure why I put that option on my pole.
        
        The thing is lately he has wanted to make love to me during the week. It’s my fault for teasing him I know that, it started one morning, he gave me my orgasm but he had a day off work and said he would like to make love to me. I told him no he would have to wait until Friday evening as usual, he started pleading with me, it was only Tuesday and I did feel a bit mean. That night I asked him for a massage he obliged and finished by giving me oral. I told him if he was good I might let him screw me afterwards. He gave me a beautiful orgasm and then I started playing with him and teasing him. He really thought he was going to get lucky but after about half an hour of teasing and denying him I told him I thought we should wait for the weekend like normal. He pleaded with me not to be so mean and this really turned me on knowing I had so much power over him. I told him I needed him to make me cum again before I made up my mind. I never at any point had any intention of letting him have sex that night, he gave me another orgasm as requested, then I just thanked him and said I was going to sleep. I’ve teased him again like this on a few occasions now and he always pleads with me but I always say no. It’s like the more he’s denied the more it turns me on, especially when he starts begging for it.
        
        I do feel like I’m being a bitch, but I still have no intention of having sex with him during the week. I have actually told him that, and he says he is fine with how things were but it’s hard for him when I tease him. But since I started doing it I’ve found I enjoy teasing him.
        
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Boojum

3 years ago

What a bunch of random internet people think about your sexual relationship with your husband is irrelevant. The only thing that matters is if the two of you are content with your arrangement.

I've always got a huge kick out of giving women orgasms and I've enjoyed that almost as much as having one myself, but I would never be happy in a sexual relationship that's as transactional as what you describe, and I would never accept such hard and fast rules.

You say in a reply to an earlier response that he "seems ok" with the arrangement. That makes it sound like this is not something the two of you have ever discussed. That's not good, and it's possible that a few months or years down the line, you may suddenly discover that he has definitely never been okay with giving a lot more than he receives. Talking about stuff is always much better than assuming everything is fine, because often things can seem to be okay in a relationship while actually resentment and frustration is building up under the surface. Then, one day, something triggers an explosion, very unpleasant things are done and said in the heat of the moment, and the relationship is never the same again.

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