Am i being selfish

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From Friday evening to Sunday night, my husband and I have a great sex life together, but the rest of the week, we never have sex because of working late and being up early for work again the next day. But sometimes on a week night I would like him to give me oral, but I don’t want full sex, this is for me not him. But I want to know am I being selfish, it’s not like we never have sex, and up till now he’s been fine with sticking to the weekends. Just because I get something extra in the week does that really mean he has to have it too?

I should be happy to leave things as they are 2
He should give me oral during the week and not expect something back 1
If he gives me oral I should give him something back 7
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  • Ellenna
    4 years ago

    If you need an orgasm during the week why don't you give yourself one? Or of course you could ask him and see what he says

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  • LornaMae
    4 years ago

    Wut?

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    • LornaMae
      4 years ago

      I don't know, I don't get it either! Lol

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    It depends on too many factors really.

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  • windyleave
    4 years ago

    I don't think I can pick any of the options you wrote cause there is no black or white in this. In my opinion, all of them could be "correct". I mean, if he enjoys giving you oral sex without "getting anything back" there's no reason why he would refuse to do so, unless he's too tired or something but it can be enjoyable for both of you. As of the being selfish part, I wouldn't worry considering that selfishness is humanity's primary instinct and mostly just human nature. Though, we have evolutioned to a point where we're capable of controlling those instincts to avoid hurting others. I suggest you talk it through with him, tell him the truth, and if he doesn't want to, you can always masturbate or wait til the weekend

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      The thing is I just want him to give me a nice orgasm and then drift off to sleep. I don’t want the hassle of all that cleaning up after he cums. I hardly ever say no to sex on the weekends even when I’m thinking actually I should be getting up and getting on with other things. I’m not saying I don’t enjoy it, but I don’t always cum if I’m feeling a bit rushed because I have other stuff to do. For me a beautiful orgasm when I’m relaxed and then just drifting off to sleep is perfect, not every night but maybe once or twice a week

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      • windyleave
        4 years ago

        I still would talk about it with him, putting no pressure on him cause of course you can't force him to do something he doesn't want to, but maybe he likes the idea. You won't know if he does until you ask.

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