Am i an 'easy shag' now?

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Okay guys, up until this point I'd had sex with two people, both of which I was in a relationship with. Six months down the line, relationships long ended, and I hadn't had sex in half a year.
I decided this was the time to get back out there, you know? I'm an 18 year old girl, I should be living it up while I can.

So I met a guy off this app called Whisper. Went to his place at night, his parents were on holiday so the house was free. We spoke for an hour, then started to make out, went upstairs, and you know the rest.

Everything seemed well and good. We don't have each other on social media and we've gone off a first name basis.

This was on Sunday.

And yesterday, I receive a friend request from this random guy. I accept it because I assumed it was a work colleague and asked who he was. He makes stilted small talk then asks where I live.

Worried, I look down his friends list and the find the guy that I had sex with.

I texted him, questioning it. He says 'oh, it's just a guy I work with. I didn't say anything bad, just mentioned that we hooked up and said your name was N**** after he nagged me. I said it by accident, I'm sorry.'

So I called him up about an hour ago and questioned him about it, and he sounded like he was making half of it up..

So I said I have to go and hung up on him. Now he's just texted me saying 'so what are you up to?'

I'm never having sex again. I refuse to be labelled easy, or a slag.

So guys, am I easy?

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  • TotallyNotAMinor
    6 years ago

    Let me tell you that from a guy's perspective. "Easy" girls attract a certain kind of men, but turn off the other.
    If casual sex is something you like, there's nothing wrong with it at all.
    Otherwise, maybe it's best to wait until you find the right guy to start a relationship with.
    To answer your question, I don't think you could be considered as an 'easy shag' yet.
    But guys around you might know you're sexually active. This will turn them on for sure.
    If a guy you're not attracted to takes you for granted and seems pretty sure he has a chance to get laid with you, just tell him to fuck off. Once you do that once or twice, whatever might have been said about you won't count anymore.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    You got mixed up with the wrong guy. You're the one who wanted to live it up since your young but here sees you as easy. And then he refers you to his friend so they Both can get with you. I'd say screw them and find soneone real. It's easy to have sex with guys. Just don't do it with the wrong ones or you'll regret it all later in life

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  • BabySilver
    6 years ago

    One night stands are usually followed by drama for one person or the other...or both.

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