Am i a stalker and/or creep if i do this?

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There are quite a few people I knew that I dont talk to. Most of them I chose myself to cut off or not talk to.

But you know how as time goes on only the good memories about a person you cut off stand out? And it makes you miss them just a tad. Or makes you want to talk to them? Some of them you may actually care about and want to make sure they are doing OK. Yet your brain still knows that contacting them would be a mistake

So if then you check up on them. Via a forum, twitter, facebook. Meaning no harm, no lust. Basically just to pacify your momentary desire talk to them, after which they get out of your head and you can go back to soing whatever you were.

Des that classify as bwing a stalker/creep?

Yes 7
No 45
I dont know 7
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  • TheWeasel
    9 years ago

    It depends.

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    It's normal, though if I hadn't contacted and reunited with one of my old friends. I wouldn't have my bestfriend today. I think sometimes it's better to put differences aside and forgive and forget the past.

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  • joker69676
    9 years ago

    Nooo, while i was reading that, i feel a rush of feelings i get sometimes too. All of my family is split up and off doing their own thing, and when we lived together it was rough. So we also dont really talk either. But i go to my sisters' and brother's pages every now and then to see if theyre doing alright. I havent had that feeling in a while, youve reminded me of it. Lol

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  • EMJAY
    9 years ago

    Totally normal. :) You're not a stalker or a creep.

    I used to feel that way, then I would come to my senses and realize I wanted them out of my life for a reason. :) If you react to a thought on impulse, you may regret opening that can of worms.

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