Am i a stalker?

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ok, so theres this guy who ive been in love with for over a year and a half, but we arent even friends. we dont talk. he is the only dude i think about. ive never liked anyone one this much. i thought this would go away but everyday it just gets stronger. im always taliking about him and my friends say thats stalking. i gt in a relationship but broke it off cuz it was just a lie. anyways is this normal??

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Based on 74 votes (54 yes)
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  • DiamondGirl
    10 years ago

    Yes u r, I have at least 4 people stalking me. Give it up! And move on.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    It's normal to have a crush, but do you even know him? Like how often do you see him? As long as he's single and age appropriate I see no reason not to pursue it. I would suggest taking things slow. Become friends first, then take it to the next level if y'all like each other. Good luck.

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  • 4theloveofdez
    12 years ago

    Normal. I think you're infatuated. If you were following him home or conveniently showing up at his classes/job/hang out spot just to see him, I'd think otherwise.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Your not stalking. You just think about him and talk about him. You dont follow and harass him. So your friends dont know what stalking is.

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  • Vyzr
    13 years ago

    Sounds like a story right out of a romantic anime... Hehehehe. I think you should tell him how you feel. Hopefully it will get more complex.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    My god u must b young! Just go tell him already!

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  • normaloralie
    13 years ago

    Ya that's normal how the heck is that stalking????????

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  • chewy
    13 years ago

    fuck what your friends think thats not stalking you just really like him now stalking would be if you followed him around without his notice

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  • Sotchi
    13 years ago

    I don't think it's really love if you guys don't even talk. The way you described it, it sounds like you don't really know him.

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  • Thatguy777
    13 years ago

    Wow. I'm the same way with this girl in a way...

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Eh not really stalking, more of an obsession

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    • DefinitelyNotNormal89
      13 years ago

      Unhealthy obsession, something I'd be a bit worried about considering you haven't even spoke to him =/

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    You haven't really described what it is you do but stalking involves following and harrassing someone so I'm gunna say no. Sounds like you have a long term crush, normal.

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