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I am a 39 year old married woman, (to a man) but I get really turned on by watching lesbian porn and would really love to have a try at lesbian sex. Does this make me a lesbian?
If you try it and only want women exclusively you are lesbian.
If you try it and like both men and woman you are bi.
If you try it and decide you only like men you are straight.
If you don't want to try it but get off to lesbian porn you are probably straight.
Pretty simple.
It depends if you are still attracted to men or not. If not then you might be on to something...
you can be a bisexual! if you're still attracted to your husband romantically and sexually, its definitely possibly you're a bisexual! this means you can open up a conversation with your husband about a possible threesome with another woman if you're both open to it. however, if you're no longer attracted to your husband (or any men for that matter) you might be a lesbian and you should talk with your husband about this.
You'll never know until you try. It could be that you are just curious, or maybe even bisexual. No shame!!!!!
If you are still in love with your husband but you want to try lesbian sex, you are bi-sexual. If you are not in love with your husband but married him anyway to fit societal norms, and you think women will turn you on more than your husband does, you're a lesbian who is lying to herself about her sexuality.
This is why sex before marriage is important and should never be regarded as a sin.