Am i a hermit?

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i dont know if this is normal, i dont leave my house for days(because im a housewife and financially dont need to work), but the thing is...... i dont leave the house, I have a phobia if i think people( neibors, family) are going to come. I jump up and run to the door viewing thingy and look if i hear the slightest sound just to make sure nobody is coming. and if some body is there, i dont open the door because im afraid what they are going to think about my MESSY house. its always a MESS. I just cant seem to clean it, AM I NORMAL?

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  • Galaxy500
    14 years ago

    you're a housewife and your place is always messy? Hmm... someone's not getting a raise.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    LOL... Check out that show, "The Hoarders". You might need some therapy.

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  • Sweetz
    13 years ago

    At least keep the place clean

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  • YOURaFREAK
    13 years ago

    Get a job then, shit!

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  • BigRedOne
    14 years ago

    Yes.............You are a hermit.

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  • sanitycheck
    14 years ago

    Are you or your husband responsible for most of the mess, or is it your company that makes the mess and leave you to clean it up?

    If they're doing it to you, then it only makes sense not to want them around too much. Tell them how you feel and that they need to start cleaning up after themselves more or they aren't welcome in your home.

    If you're responsible for the mess, then I guess you need to get to cleaning. Again, tell your company how you feel, that you need time to yourself to tidy up the house. Either way, they should understand, but if not, then run them off, until you're caught up anyways.

    It doesn't sound to me like you're so much a hermit, but rather just really stressed and unable to schedule everything you need to get done regularly. Your company won't fully realize this unless you express it to them.

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  • claro666
    14 years ago

    You have Agoraphobia, and it's sad, you are wasting your life. Go outside for a walk for fuck sake!

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