Am i a freak/ sexual deviant?

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Every time I masturebate I have a pretty bad sense of shame and dirtiness. My parents think its weird to do it more then a couple times a year and every time I take a long shower (even when i'm not masturebating) they call me out on it which adds to the shame. Maybe it's because i grew up religious, but I'm not too sure.

I am not 18 yet so I can't get a dildo, so I went to a nearby Daiso and picked a fake plastic cucumber thing and some rubber gloves, and as I brought it to the counter I couldn't look at the lady in the eyes. A part of me died inside and I just feel like a freak. Is there something wrong with me? Am I a pervert for buying something like this?

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  • DADNSCAL
    3 years ago

    Very normal, and your parents are complicating your life with their condescending attitude.

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  • HornyBi258
    3 years ago

    You should have no shame and I knwo know people who masturbate a couple of times a day so a couple of times a year woudl be deviant

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  • CelticDarkMoon
    3 years ago

    It’s not normal that you feel shame because of others or religious beliefs, your urges are what make you human so do as you please and enjoy it

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  • lorbsdoesnthelp
    3 years ago

    It's common to have shame attached to sexual feelings - especially with a family that puts that on you. It's not a bad thing to be sexual, as long as you're safe with yourself and others. Try to unlearn the shame.

    I wouldn't put anything inside or on your privates that isn't designed to be safely used that way, though.

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    Somewhat of a freak and a sexual deviant even though you're under 18, you should not have any shame and dirtiest while doing any of this, with the thing you've described with being perverted just do whatever floats your boat so as long it is not affecting you.

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  • Queer69
    2 years ago

    Nothing wrong with being a sexual deviant. It's the spice of your sexualality.

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  • ChrisDerrig666
    3 years ago

    We are very open in my house. I have a son 15 and a daughter 11. They masterbate seems all day sometimes.

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  • Chap
    3 years ago

    You're parents are what's not normal. You're completely fine. I feel people should do what makes them feel good, and should do what's natural [unless it's actively hurting someone or morally wrong]. Masturbating is extremely normal, and most people do it. Some people do it as little as a few times a year, and some do it multiple times a day [like myself]. So, do it as much as you please; you are not a pervert, and you should only be worried if you masturbate too much [meaning it gets in the way of doing everyday tasks, or you are addicted].

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    • Chap
      3 years ago

      I'd like to add that their's this taboo when it comes to masturbating; it's that it is dirty, sinful, and a perversion of nature. Don't believe this. The people that believe this more than likely masturbate as well. The only sexual things that are actually perversions of nature are probably just pedos and sex offenders [rapists, groomers, etc]. So, unless you identify with what I just put in parentheses/brackets, you shouldn't worry.

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  • JudgeOfNormality
    3 years ago

    Dont worry. Chances are, people you know are masturbating more times a day than you. Some girls fap multiple times a day. And a few times a YEAR? Most people have INTERCOURSE about 50-60 times a year. You're not doing anything wrong, especially as a young woman. Trust me, you're completely normal. :)

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