Am i a creeper because i do this?

So I'm in love with a former camp counselor of mine who I'm Facebook friends with, and was pretty close with over the summer, but I may never see again. She's significantly older than me, and I'm pretty sure she's straight, so I really doubt that the romantic attraction was mutual, but she basically got me out of a really bad place, emotionally speaking. She spent hours just patiently talking me down from numerous depressive episodes every time I needed her. We still talk on occasion, but every time I get really lonely, I look at the pictures of her on her Facebook page. Seeing her face is still extremely comforting to me, which is why I do it. I just feel like kind of a creeper because of it. Is it normal to do this?

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Based on 147 votes (112 yes)
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  • alv1592

    I'd say it's normal to an extent. It sounds like she really likes you, so it's normal that you miss her and think about her. And it's okay to look at Facebook pics, as long as you're not stalking her or giving unwanted attention. But you know that if she's straight and much older, your romantic feelings for her won't go anywhere. But that doesn't mean you can't be friends.

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  • zchristian

    If it makes you feel comfort and you dont directly stalk her where is the problem....

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  • It's normal to feel sad and look at pictures of somebody who you have romantic feelings for when you know those feelings aren't returned. Especially if you're lesbian and she is straight, it builds an even bigger wall between you two. But don't worry hunny, you will move on in time and find somebody special :) There is someone just as wonderful out there waiting to meet you and love you!

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  • As long no one is getting hurt, I think it's absolutely fine

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  • Dozis

    I think you are ling. Come on. Confess. You just wanna fuck her brains out.
    You have been wanking like crazy while watching these pictures. Come on. Confess you maniac. You pervert! You came all over the screen of your computer while fantasizing about cumming all over her face. Come on. Confess. Be honest. You just wanna send her an email saying: I want to stick my penis in you and make you moan to repay you. I wanna lick you from head to toe and be your faiithful slave till you decide to let me kill myself. Come on. Be honest.
    You are just all over her. You are obsessing over her. And coming up with several ways to reach her so she can make you happy like a puppy right after you make her. Come on. Just call her and say: I love you my little parrot! I can't live without you! You are my everything! I am so sad since you went away! I cannot stop looking at your facebook pictures and wanking myself half to death!
    Ahahahahahah! It's comforting.. WHATEVER!

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  • Riddler

    You know its thier job to take care of the kids at camp. However when you are in a bad place and someone helps you out of it, it is normal to form an attachment even a crush on them. Your not crazy, its normal, However you dont give us the age difference so I dont really know how to tell you to proceed. If your underage like than harassing her with it will probably just get her in trouble.

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  • pastor_of_muppets

    She is a Counsellor... being caring is her job.. now you go and fall in love with her because she is giving you a level of attention that nobody else gives you.
    I think you are in for a bad comedown if you confess your feelings to her

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  • lease

    Sounds like she built a trusting relationship with you. To seek for that to continue is perfectly normal.

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  • I wouldn't say so. We all have our own ways of comfort.

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  • i think its normal

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  • The.Secret.History

    I suppose this is normal, but is it healthy? I think not.

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  • ygrowup

    It's normal, but I may be time to seek out another to lean on and comfort you!

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  • Tehboss

    why u no stalk her?

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  • Totally.

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