Always misunderstood!!!!! am i strange enuf???

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I'm always wondering if I misunderstood the term "Friendship".. I'm the kind of person who really cares about friends and family.. and I'm being supportive most of the time, I'm always there if someone wants to talk.. and I'm very open-minded. But, somehow people tend to get me wrong.. especially dudes!

Since high school, whenever I find a good "guy" friend .. that we're kinda close. He translates my actions into "She Cares a Lot About Me." and he starts to believe himself until I make it plain clear that I'm not interested in him as a "Boyfriend". It hurts but I couldn't find a better way.

Till today, the same situation happens with me, with most of my guy friends.. It is so irritating that I think I'm giving the "wrong signals"

Is this normal? Or Am I doing it the wrong way?

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  • wannarocktheworld
    14 years ago

    we boys will remain boys...
    just a day before my friend came with this shit of his that some other girl in his college,who apparently is just plain good friends with him, makes him feel that she's trying to pick up on him...so you see,we guys first see if the relation is romantic,then friendship,and then sisterly

    so u gotta keep those overflowing over-friendly vibes, so that guys don't think u r flirting or picking up on 'm

    hope u got that clear

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