All my boyfriend's family hates me, without no reasons.

hey thanks for all the comments, and I have a great news I finally broke up with him!
he was a cowardly, liar, and the whole situation just make me ill, now that I've finished with him I'm happy and feeling great again!

THANKS AGAIN U ALL! ♥

Tell him to not b such a little bitch and too stand up for u.

keep rocking your shit the way you want to rock your shit girl. you shouldnt worry too much. its normal for a parrent to think their lover/whatever is a bad influence.. because their child is the golden child.

i love tatoos (aslong as they have meaning andnot just "trampstampspringbreak") i also love piercings. i have my sternum and a few other things pierced ~.^

your man loves you and thats all that matters. my mother was disowned for dating my father... they came around eventually when i was born. im the 2nd oldest. and they never let me see any sign of the tension tht had been there all those years.

people make mistakes, just rock your shit the way you rock your shit and dont change who you are because you want to please them. Please yourself, and him (winkwink) before you worry about other people.

Dump him. If he's of legal age and he still allows his family to treat him like a baby and he doesn't stand up for you then he's a p$ssy and you could do much better than him. A relationship like this will never work because I've seen relationships like this and guys like this act like *sses. every time you guys have an argument he will run home to mommy, when the rent is due he will run home to mommy, when he wants to cheat on you he will cry and say "you don't love me any more" run home to mommy and use that as an excuse to get laid all he wants.

You need to put your foot down, send a letter to him saying that you are dumping him because of the abnormal relationship between him and his parents, say that his standing by idly while his parents and family disrespect you is not normal behavior for an adult, but for a man who sill wants to be attached to his mommy's panties. Make a copy of the letter and send it to EVERY single one of his family members including parents, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, cousins and grandparents also state in the letter that if you receive even one more disrespectful remark that you will notify that authorities and get a protection order. If you do this, believe me they will stop. And his next girlfriend will probably be a mousy, scared sh*tless little girl who who stares at the ground instead of looking people in their eyes.

take them all on a visit to the grand canyon and when your boyfriends distracted, push them to their immediate death. :)

tell him they fell.

My boyfriend's Family also hate me, but not because of tats or piercings but because of the way i dress. to them its slutty but like Marlie said you rock your shit the way your rock your shit. If your boyfriend loves you then nothing should come between that! what made me get over it was saying to myself: who am i dating? his mother or him? If she doesnt like it then she doesnt have to date me. Its all about personal prefernce. His family cant control who he loves. love is natural it comes in an all natural ways. if he truly loves you no matter what they say or do can EVER come between you too. and if it does... then so be it. It wasnt ment to be. But seriously you should never let your boyfriends family tear you apart. Good luck hope this helped! :)

pfff go find another bf or murder his family

oops!
typo: *how great a girl you are
typo: *the holy cow that he pretends he is

we have the same problem darla...don't worry,we can win it.

dump that bastard who hasn't made his family see how a great a girl you are, how much you have helped him and merely wants to keep his parents happy about the holy cown he pretends to be.
dump him

I agree with the commenter way up the line who said that s/he got the feeling you weren't telling the whole story about yourself.

I can tell you right now that your boyfriend's family couldn't care less about you. They're only looking at what's happening to him. If being with you is making him ignore other responsibilities (school, work, family obligations), yeah, they're going to be pissed. If you're introducing him to people and activities that they don't approve of (pot, being out all night, cigs and alcohol), then yeah, his family is going to be pissed at you. If the last girl who looked like you introduced him to all that stuff, they're going to be pissed at you.

Your boyfriend's family doesn't care about you at all. They're only looking at him.

Five dollars worth of free advice: Don't ask them *anything*. Don't try to talk to them about it, don't try to win them over, don't even try to be in their presence. I know it would be normal and civilized of them to actually have an adult conversation about it, but it doesn't seem like they're normal, civilized people to me. They're just going to take it as a free opportunity to make you feel bad about yourself. This guy isn't your husband, so it's really not worth it to even bother with his family.

have you ever talked with your bf about his family and the way they treat you? if he loves you, he should stay by your side. if he doesn't , it means that he doesn't love you enough

All my gf's families hate so i'd say it's normal

tnks u all :/

That's what there for lol I have to same reaction since I only date white guys just smile and keep in mind that u love him

happened to me plenty of times.

well tatoos are cool and all and having piercings does not justify being feminine and what not so just be happy with yourself and either ignore his family or tell your boyfriend to stick up for you i bet you are beautiful the way you are :)

hey thanks for all the comments, and I have a great news I finally broke up with him!
he was a cowardly, liar, and the whole situation just make me ill, now that I've finished with him I'm happy and feeling great again!

THANKS AGAIN U ALL! ♥ [2]

Tattoos on a female, sadly, carry a stigma that she is not feminine, has destroyed her looks, and the list goes on.

Are you willing to covet the tattoos ip and remove the body piercings?

If not, you may never fit in this family. How miserable. DON'T compromise what you value about yourself. If it's that important to you, the best things come to those willing to wait. Hang in there

u need to decide ,whether u want him only or u want him with his family..if he only means talk to him ,ask him to think of u guys future if not u muz wait for them to change

unfair as it is, tats and piercings make a statement, and they obviously don't like it.

sad :/

Oh good God. You sound exactly like my girlfriend.
I'll tell you what every guy should tell a girl like you;

Stop being so damn paranoid. Seriously, who cares if his family doesn't like you. It's not like you're dating his family, you're dating him. Plus, if you've given them no reason to not like you, then you're freaking out over nothing anyways.

(Sorry if I went off topic, didn't read story)

As the other person stated, I can't help but feel there is more to this story. Tattoos And piercings can offend people, but rarely cause the reaction you describe.