All me and my boyfriend do is argue, is ther any point in us?

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Me and m boyfriend have been together almost as year. Everything started good and we were happy. A couple of months in we had a huge arguemnt andalmost broke up, we sorted stuff out and obvisouly are still together. But ever since we seem to argue alot, lots of times they are silly and pointless but somethimes ther not and i feel like we argue just for the sake of it. I keep telling myself thers no point in being together if all we do is argue. But i love him too much to leave. I dont no what to do. Any sugestions?

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  • Bubblybunny
    10 years ago

    1) don't look for a fight. Don't petty fight. It's pointless.
    2)compromise. In the big fight you have to give a little to get something back.
    3) never go to bed angry. It's hurtful for both of you.
    4)sorry. you have to say it sometimes.
    5) don't sweep it under the rug. if you do have something to be angry about talk to him sitting down and relaxed.
    Hope this helps!

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  • Syniister
    10 years ago

    I might be a little late commenting over two years later but if you're arguing because you care, stick with it. You're in love. If you're arguing because you hate them.... Well... GTFO!

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  • emotionalwreck4ever
    12 years ago

    try getting along, me and my bf use to argue all the time but we ended up having a kid which made our relationship way better since we were always busy with the kids.

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  • beckalar
    12 years ago

    Its probaly 50/50 of argueing and not argueing. Wich isnt good, when we dont argue its great and when we do argue we never say sorry to eachother we just start talking again like nothings happened. Wich i dont like id prefer to make up properly but i dunno. I think maybe we need a break. Cheers for reply :)

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  • Solophonic
    12 years ago

    You sure you two don't just enjoy arguing?

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  • Saycheese
    12 years ago

    If you two still continue to argue and it hurts. It's obvious that it would be better to move on and find someone that would care more and would agree to disagree. It hurts you more to stay to with someone that continues to hurt you. If you two figure things out to stop the arguements then good and maybe it would be best to just be friends.

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