All guys like guys? girls are you nervous too?

Okay, I am in NO WAY homophobic. I have many gay friends, I even talk to them about this, and they confirm what I already see. It seems like all young guys today are gay, bi, bi- curious, or say they are straight when they are really not. Hearing the " Oh I am straight and love pussy but oh...one time I was this party....but im straight!" Story is becoming very common, for me at least. Its alright if youre gay or bi, or curious. But dont be in denial or hide it. Im sure that your to-b gf's or gf's, would like to know this kind of stuff. Do any other girls see this issue arising? And are you as scared as me? lol

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  • SamuraiPeeper

    I think human sexuality can go anywhere it wants. Gay people might occasionally feel an attraction to a person of the opposite sex and straight people can occasionally to the same sex. If bisexuality is ever having been attracted to one or more people of the same sex, then EVERYONE is bi. I don't think you have much to worry about. I don't think there's been an increase in homosexuality just an increase in people being honest about how they feel. I would think that the type of situation where a gay man marries a woman for a perpetual beard will be heard about less and less as persecution and bias of homosexuality continues to dissipate. I think you're fear is a little unreasonable and maybe a little homophobic. You really seem bothered by this.

    Probably you're just not very secure with yourself.

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  • Katie96

    I dont have a bf, but if I did and I found out he was gay or bi, and that he did it with another guy while we were going out, I would break up with him.

    If you cant be faithful to me and have sex or even make out with someone else whatever their sex is, then we are finished. Cheatin is cheatin.

    But yeah its almost like no big thing if a guy says he is gay or bisexual. My mom told me once that when she was young there wasnt hardly any gays and there wasnt bisexual stuff that you ever heard about. Wierd. I think there also wasnt air conditioning and Ipods and all that. This is 2010 almost. Things are different for us than they were for them. :)

    Old people! Hmph!

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    • I agree.
      Its not the point that they are for me.
      It's that they try and hide it.
      I dont want to end up like those women who are married for 3939 years to a man they love, have kids, and then he comes out and says he is gay.
      If youre gay, youre gay, dont joke around with people. That's the part that scares me lol.

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  • KingSnipah

    I'm 100%% straight (male), never will I date or have any sexual reactions with another man.

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  • CreamPuffs

    Nope. Not nervous at all.

    I'd have to have a bf in the first place in order to worry about losing him.

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  • youre

    Even though i have read and heard a lot of guys saying that i never in my life like a guy or even Curious and i think the opposite, all girls ar bi

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  • FUCK SALT

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  • CountessCoolout

    I don't understand what it is you're scared of - are you afraid you might catch their Gay? It's not contagious. But if you think it'll be easy for them to do, you may already be halfway there.

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  • me-ggy

    From what I've seen it's just that guys tend to be more homophobic, maybe that's not the right word, but I've talked to alot of straight guys I know, and they all say that the worst thing you can call a guy is gay. It's some sort of insault to their manliness or something.
    I say they should get over their testosterone and come out of closet. No girl wants to end up like the wives in Brokeback Mountain.

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  • ruralfrights

    Having an experience doesn't make one gay, and if it happened in the past and is not a threat to the relationship, that one falls in the category of being his
    business not anyone elses

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  • Myxomycete

    I think your a bi... tryin to hide yourself.

    cheeky, very cheeky

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  • PunkZombie

    If anything girl on girl is overrated.

    Guys can do as they wish.

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  • alexisfreak

    I think that if you're gay, you are gay. Don't hide it!

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  • ash123456

    theres a kid at my skl who calls me names
    and he is straight
    but one time he asked his mate if he thought some guys were hot :S i guess he cant call me names anymore lol

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    • Haha guess not.

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  • Hmm great comment. Guess I'll have to get over it or be single for the rest of my life lol.

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  • WhiteSheepOfTheFamily

    Plenty of guys mess around when alcohol is involved. Especially with homosexuality becoming more acceptable, at least legally. There aren't the same consequences there used to be, so if you're drunk and curious, why not screw around?

    It's something you have to accept, that guys will lie about this kind of thing, and you may end up with a liar. Just look for obvious warning signs that he's not really into you sexually, and learn to tolerate a little bi-ness or sexual ambiguity. It's not always cut-and-dried like you might think.

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    • crystal2010

      oh its ok i use a strap on with my man he had so stuff going on when he was younger but he opened up and we even play the roll play he dresses up and im the man so hot

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    • PoisonFlowers

      Yeah, I was just going to say that it's probably partly due to to how homosexuality etc is becoming more acceptable in comparison to how it was in the past.

      Not much I can add to WhiteSheepOfTheFamily's post. Oh, and I'm not scared haha xD Why should I be scared? There are things that terrify me much more, such as...spiders.

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      • WhiteSheepOfTheFamily

        Here's why. You don't marry a spider and then find out it's a spider 40 years later.

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        • BentBuddhist

          This is very hard for me to admit....and I'd probably never admit it to anyone outside of this forum...I wouldn't say that I am attracted to men.....I am still very much sexually attracted to the female form, but when I go to a porn site and see a still preview for guy on guy stuff...I get curious. One part of me wants to click and watch it, one part of me is afraid I'll like it, and the other part of me is fairly certain that it'll turn me off. Whenever I see gay guys on TV I watch for a little while. On one hand, I seriously derive a bit of humor out of watching guys who act like girls and on the other hand I'm genuinely curious about....something....what that something is, I'm not sure...sometimes (rarely) I have dreams about engaging in homosexual acts, but I always end up killing the other guy in my dream. There was this one dream where this gay guy was actually stalking me and I felt like it was getting dangerous, so I smashed his head in with a big rock. What's going on here?

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          • Idk but maybe thats just how all guys today are?
            I am a female so I wouldnt know haha.
            I say, watch the porn to see if you do like it.
            And if youre turned off, you will have your answer.
            If youre turned on.. explore into it.

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  • simonmoto

    i think its generally because it has become quite a fashionable thing to be lately.

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