All attractive qualities in a partner are just as shallow as each other
I hate how some girls think they're so much more pure and moral and way less shallow than other girls because they don't care so much about a guy's looks. But then they'll happily judge him on other things, things that he has just as little control over as his looks. Things like being intelligent or funny or confident. Of course I'm not saying that attraction isn't important, but there's no difference whether it's a guy's looks or confidence that attracts you. Each of those requirements for a potential partner is as shallow as the other.
At the end of the day, the only thing that really matters about anybody is how nice they are. If they're the nicest person in the world and we still don't wanna be with them, then that's because of our own (arguably) selfish and shallow attractions.