Air head blond me :(

Im easily intimidated by people...well more specifically other girls/women.(Not good experiences as a child or now to make me feel confident in myself) Please dont call me a punk I just get Very anxiuos when Im around women like I cant be myself for fear that they wont like me. The oppions of people matters alot to me because I cannot STAND to feel like someone doesnt like me :( Because there is something wrong with me :( Please Help!

P.S I am an creative and Intelligent person. But I know i come off a Fluzzy air head blond (even though Im not blond) because Im very goofy mild mannered and easy going I also tend to make a joke out of myself instead of other people but its all in good fun Why dont people LIKE me? Why dont girls like me?? Oh yea not to brag but Im very beautiful too could that be a reason too???? :(

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Comments ( 15 )
  • UserFriendlyDrug

    Don't worry, not everyone is going to hate you. You're just shy. And what someone above said, to prissy high ego girls, you are a big threat, so they will do all in their power to tear you down.

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  • myweirdself16

    Wow. I feel like I read my own bio for a second, there. It's a normal feeling, I guess, to think people say you are an air headed-blonde.

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  • ndublet

    And the people being nasty might be blond for u might have offended them :L

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  • ndublet

    But u kinda seem nice ... X

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  • ndublet

    I ment to put don't PUT that next time soz x

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  • ndublet

    U put p.s I'm a creative and intelligent person , yh u did sound like u was bragging a bit and u seemed like u was up your own ass , don't us things like that next time #just saying x

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  • pay2play

    You sound perfect don't change xxxx

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx

    You are retarded :)

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  • Sorry but I'm grinning over your despair but ignore those people

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  • littlecupsofgrace

    @harshbuttrue. It's actually most commonly spelled "blond". If you want to be harsh you actually have to be true, and now you just sound like an asshole

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  • lisha590

    Thanks guys :)

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  • You're going to have to accept that you will not please everyone nor will everyone like you. So don't put so much stock in other peoples opinions, and give more credence to your own opinion of yourself (self esteem).

    This is especially true if you are everything you say: intelligent, creative, self deprecating humour, & beautiful. To some women all that adds up to BIG THREAT. And they will try to hurt you.

    If, instead of attempting the impossible of pleasing everyone, you put your energy into cultivating relationships with women you click with you'll make a supportive circle of friends.

    If you are not clicking with any women, its either bad luck, or, you are going to have to think about what you may be doing to turn them off.

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  • nothing2

    i love punk music. women like it too. they know you're different and more interesting.

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  • ninehalf338

    This isn't a dating website

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  • HarshbutTrue

    "anxiuos,oppions,Fluzzy,blond

    P.S I am an creative and Intelligent person
    Oh yea not to brag but Im very beautiful too could that be a reason too???

    when you say shit like that, im wondering WHY would anyone like you. its spelled BLONDE btw

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