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It feels good, you're both into it, you're not faking it, it's just what happens! You're moaning and groaning and 'yes' this and 'oh yeah' that. When you're finished and laying there, you're thinking...hmmm, that was loud. Is it normal to be a little embarassed after loud sex?
Be proud! Loud sex generally is the best sex! Nothing more awkward than silent sex, that means someone is doing something very poorly lolz.
yep. Hearing the neighbours get it on after we are finished because they heared us and got horny is GREAT.
We leave the windows open on purpose ;)
Be proud, be loud!
If they don't want to hear you, let THEM close their window. (Well, except if a small child is watching from the opposite house, maybe...)
Umm... well, should I say it? Okay, here goes. I, unlike most of you, do not associate loud sex with good sex in any way.
I once dated a man, who I seriously *watched* have sex with me. Because of his loudness I did not really feel I was an active participant in the sex, I kind of thought I was watching porn, but I just didn't see the girl "oh, that's right: it's me!". It took me superhuman womanly love and control to not burst out laughing and time to understand "wtf? Is this shit for real? hahaha"
So, to my point, it's not that I completely dislike loud sex, but I find the expression of pleasure in that manner unnecessary. I'm more of a moaner, whisperer, talker, even quiet lover I'd say. The truth is it always depends on so many factors that it is almost pointless to establish a rule for something that basically has none.
If I must to choose, embarrassed in that case I mentioned. Every time!
In all other cases, when I'm part of the sex, proud! ;)
It's normal to be embarrassed about being loud and moaning but it's not a bad thing at all.
Loud sex = good sex
Hell no, moan and shout and scream your heart out. Means you're enjoying it, right? :D
Depends. Did people in the other room hear you and make jokes?
If not don't be embarrassed let it out! Loud sex is the best sex.
Let it out, it's so much more fun that way. And don't be embarrassed, there is no shame in good sex. Who cares if people know you enjoy sex.