After how many dates will you consider having sex?

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Dating anyone? Sounds fun, isn't it?

The question is, after how many dates will you consider having sex with your date, or will you consider it at all?

1 - I am looking for sex when I date, so go figure. 24
2 - Have sex on first date would be too soon, 3rd would be too late. 5
3 - Third time is a charm. Let's do it. 12
4 - Four is my lucky number. 2
5 - Meet Monday, screw Friday. Sounds about right. 0
7 - I only need sex once a week, so 7 is good. 1
Weeks - I need time to decide. 7
At least a month - I want to go slow to get to know him/her. 13
Other (comment) 7
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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    If it was a person that I geniunly wanted to be with then probably after a few dates. I wouldn't want it to be too easy. It would make me skeptical about the person slightly.

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    • omghahahawasbanned
      9 years ago

      Makes sense.

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  • VinnyB
    9 years ago

    Me and my husband had sex for the first time about 30 min after meeting.

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    • omghahahawasbanned
      9 years ago

      You both were ripe for it, I suppose. Why wait?

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago

    Once I get to know that person really well and I feel like I have feelings of love for this person, then I will. So I guess that would be a few months?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I've never actually dated, but when meeting some gal at a gig or such, I've had no reason not to have sex with her that evening.
    Of course, there were few STD's around and it didn't seem that most people had as many hang ups about sex as they do today. It's like the attitude about sex is going backwards from the free loving 60's and 70's.

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    • omghahahawasbanned
      9 years ago

      It surely seems like a different time we live in now.

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  • VSpnklvr
    8 years ago

    Well I'm at the point in my dating life where if I'm looking to take someone out on a date I'm usually looking to have a relationship. I'll usually wait until both of us feel comfortable with taking the relationship to the bedroom. (Almost never the first date)I can't really put this on a set number of dates...it kinda of just happens and is a feeling more than something that you can set a number on.

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  • gloryholeflasher
    9 years ago

    If I dated a girl a second or third time and we were hitting it off pretty good I would be expecting to be having sex with her by then , or very soon. If I was on a date with another guy, (yes, I'm bi), I would be expecting sex on our first date or there'd be no reason to even be together!

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  • Riddler
    9 years ago

    Well that is interesting but I never go on dates and if we are basing this on "Just dates" well I probably would be a point where we stopped dates and just started dating not being so formal. I think I could give you a time period though not in number of dates. 2 years, or wait till marriage.

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  • LizardSkin
    9 years ago

    Most women that i've dated jumped me almost immediately. But one girl I used to love made me wait years.

    Maybe there's something to be said for that.

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    • omghahahawasbanned
      9 years ago

      But she finally gave in? How did it feel the day you two "get together"? Anything special?

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      • LizardSkin
        9 years ago

        It was special emotionally of course. I'm not gonna go into details on that sorry lol

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  • KeddersPrincess
    9 years ago

    NEVAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • sega31098
    9 years ago

    When I'm in a sincere relationship.

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    9 years ago

    Sometimes that depends on witch kind of life you have/had. If you work hard and have a house to run full of responsibilities it might happen not have time or the patients to wait 2 days to go to bed with a girl. That happen with me for many years.
    Therefore one night standing was ok many and still suits well whenever I feel like.
    Now I have a girlfriend but she is not living with me. Sometimes she is away for a long time and I go out looking for company. I need what I need and I don't want to wait 2 or 3 days for it. I go to a singles disco, invite a nice girl, in case she is in the mood we do it. Not looking for love but for sex.

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  • harddrystickysocks
    9 years ago

    At least a couple. Enough to be sure that the girly does not have vaginal warts.

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    • omghahahawasbanned
      9 years ago

      According to WebMD, it takes at least 3 weeks for symptoms to show. You are outta luck!

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      • harddrystickysocks
        9 years ago

        Just because you have internal anal warts doesn't mean you have to project your anger upon me.

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        • omghahahawasbanned
          9 years ago

          Cheap shot. I thought you could hold a discussion. Turns out you are just a joke.

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          • harddrystickysocks
            9 years ago

            Pfft.

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