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So what do you do after breaking up with a partner? Do you cry a lot? Do you think of how she/he is doing?
For me, i have not been crying a lot cause i cried during our past fights. But sometimes i just remember our memories together and i feel like crying. Sometimes i remember to miss him.
If your partner treated you badly why not celebrate! Celebrate your freedom from someone who wasn't worth your time, energy, and emotion in the first place. Celebrate your emancipation from a situation that was oppressive, and bad for you.
Pray for your Higher Power to heal you, and put better people in your life!
In no time at all you won't care.I remember when a BITCH and I split up (yes even -- has had some fish get off the hook), oh I cried and I thought "how could this bitch, I'm gonna kill her", but in a few days to a few weeks I was over it.
Didn't think about her again until years later when I seen her at a fuel station. OMG she looked like shit. Fucking full houso welfare recipient, kids waiting in the car, car was a rusted bomb, she talked like a bush pig, had put on weight. I then thought you cried over this ugly bogan, wtf.
Our relation ship know is just a funny memory and I think lucky, because I could be the one paying child support to this bush pig
Just move on. You broke up for a reason, the relationship wasn’t right so now it’s time to move on to better things.
I take forever to get over a breakup wether it's a partner or a close friend. I am nearly incapable of letting go which is probably why I generally keep people at a distance. Defense mechanism. I cry a lot, then I go numb. Think about them all the time and wonder what went wrong, hold myself back from contacting them, listen to a lot of sad and angry music.
After my first breakup, I cried a lot and felt hurt because I was cheated on.
After my second, however, I felt pretty much nothing but relief and didn't even grieve the relationship. That one was a long time coming and it was a miserable relationship.
As I got older I came to view breakups from a more logical perspective. If all options were explored, you were open to talking about it or working on it and it still didn't pan out then it simply wasn't meant to be. You can only go so far. Whether they meet you halfway or not, people are different and no matter how badly you want it to work, it just won't at times
I go and fuck someone else the same day, if not the next, because it clears my head. Then I drink heavily for two weeks or so and look for a new one if I feel like it. As far as feelings go though that’s a tough one, I have difficulty describing feeling.
So you were able to forget her after that? What if she came back to you, would you tell her you screwed up after breaking up? Or you wont accept her back?