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Is it normal to be afraid to have sex with your boyfriend because you're afraid of being unattractive? I mean, I'm not planning on having sex soon, because I'm too young and I've only been dating him for a short while, but..I'm insecure that maybe I'm TOO ugly for sex. Am I normal?
if your in a relationship with him then he must think your attractive so he would be okay with having sex :)
A certain amount of insecurity is normal, but if it starts to restrict how you live your life (which it sounds like it is beginning to) then it becomes a problem. Is there anyone you trust enough to talk to about this? Try to remember that if your boyfriend didn't find you attractive, he wouldn't be with you.
Ok... Les give you an example. Boyfriend: wanna fuck? You; HE'LL YEAH!!!
Situation no 2 you: wanna fuck? Boyfriend: HELL YEAH!!!
everyone loves sex so he won't reject you.
If you're attractive enough to be in a relationship, you're attractive enough to have sex. So when you want to do it, do it without worry.
Everyone deserves to be happy, whether they are "ugly" or not, so don't worry about it.
trust me, your not! ... and your boyfriend obv loves u and also boys don't thinklike us girls do. they don't notice things we hate about our bodies sweetie.
hey hey hey dont tell her that
her bf probably just wants a quick piece of
ass.....i hate to be so rude but since when do guys look for love?
im one of only a hand full of guys that do
she needs to have a heart made of stone
yeah he wont pay attention to her looks cause
he probably just wants to fuck....
p.s i apologise if im wrong.....but most guys
are like that
J.A.S
i believe thats normal, i mean me and my boyfriend have had sex since the 5th day we were dating, but ive changed tremendously since that, we've almost been together for 2 years, and now im alot more insecure about myself because of the changes on my body, hence why we dont have sex a lot. but i do believe its normal to be insecure about yourself, never consider yourself too ugly though, everyone is beautiful in their own way. and if he doesnt respect you for that, then dont have sex with him, find someone who loves you for you, whether the lights are out or on, you know?
it sounds like your young. if you have self esteem issues only YOU can fix them and having sex will not validate your beauty. only you can look in the mirror and see that. trust me....you dont want to start having sex only to make sure your pretty