Afraid of new relationships because sister seduced first boyfriend?

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Totally normal 8
Talk to possible boyfriend 11
Get over it 8
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You should get that checked out 8
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  • SkullsNBones
    10 years ago | pl

    Any boy who left you for / cheated on you with your own sister was not worth your time in the first place, but you also need to talk with your sister as she needs to learn some respect and self control.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      No, he really wasn't. Doesn't quite change the betrayal by my sister though. We haven't talked since and she just... does this sort of stuff.

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  • Shackleford96
    10 years ago

    Slap that hoe.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      There was some slapping involved when I found out, yes ;)

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      • Shackleford96
        10 years ago

        !!! Hot!

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Dude your sister is such a bitch and a treacherous little harlot.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Yeah, she is... haven't really talked to her much since. At least nothing except for "Hello" and "Bye"...

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  • Naughtyboy666
    10 years ago

    Your sister is jealous of you and more than likely will go out of her way to prove to herself that she is just as deserving.. She will probably try with what ever guy you date weather or not she likes him. Remember it takes 2 to tango. At least you will find out if the guy you are with is worth keeping around..

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      You think? I had rather hoped that this was a fluke or something :/ A friend of mine also said she couldn't deal with me 'having' something she didn't. But that doesn't seem easy to repair...

      I guess so. It's a rather hurtful way of finding out, though. Then again, I suppose being cheated on hurts no matter who the 'tango partner' is ;)

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      • Naughtyboy666
        10 years ago

        You right, it does hurt. I imagine that it being blood hurts allot more though:((
        Iv had a number of partners cheat on me, i dont have a brother who could steel my girlfriends but if i did im sure it will hurt more!!

        As much as your sister has hurt you, forgive her! It will help you allot when you get involved again:)

        Sorry to hear that your sister has been so horrible to you:((

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  • imadragon
    10 years ago

    Who's boyfriend?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Well, mine. Why would I have a problem if he had been her boyfriend?

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      • imadragon
        10 years ago

        I just thought that if she seduced him into a relationship without any meaning to her that would be a problem. (Like you don't want that happening to you.)

        Anyway your sister obviously doesn't know how to care for other people. I think you should talk to her and also to your parents.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          Oh, no I definitely did not want this to happen. I mean, in the end it really wasn't a stable relationship otherwise this whole thing wouldn't have happened. And it's actually less about the guy (at least now, it happened about six months ago) than about the fact that SHE did what she did.

          And I supppose I will. It's just somewhat awkward to involve my parents and my sister likely won't see reason...

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