Advice for first time anal?

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I'm a 19 year old girl with a 19 year old boyfriend. During sex we've tried to do anal a few times but it's always been too painful to finish. I can pretty much only take 2 thrusts till I tap out. We've been doing bondage and we talked about how we both want to do anal because we both like to do it. But during sex he ties my wrists behind my back and i'm nervous about doing anal with the restriction and pain during. How can I help with the pain? Is there anything I have to worry about as far as bathroom "issues" go? I'm also pretty worried about that because my boyfriend is 19 and is still somewhat immature when it comes to stuff like that. How can I avoid having an anal horror story? Should I hold off on the bondage stuff when we try so I don't feel uncomfortable and so restricted?

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  • CDmale4fem
    5 years ago

    You need an older boyfriend.

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  • xxLucifer
    5 years ago

    First make sure you use plenty of lube. There are different types of lubes out there. There are lubes specifically made for anal sex, but regular lube should work as well. Just do a little research. Secondly you need to "train" your asshole. It's better if you start with something small like a finger and slowly work your way up to something the size of your boyfriend's penis. Whether or not you decide to do the "training" as part of bondage is your decision.

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    • Maid_in_Pink
      5 years ago

      Yeah, they actually sell like buttplug kits that have gradually bigger sizes and they aren't that expensive. Start small, go up to about the size of his penis. You don't have to do it like all day long but like maybe a week or two before you plan on doing the big bondage and anal night, start going up to something and then maybe once a day for 15 minutes or so put one in. When you feel at ease with the small one leave it in for 15 minutes then go up to the next size and do that for a couple days until you feel like you can just go up to the 2nd size with no issues.

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a6676/anal-sex-beginners-guide/

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    There are some ball torture devices that use batteries and have a remote controll for the woman if he is doing it to fast or to deepv you press the button and he gets a shock in the balls!!

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    A small and medium buttplug and lots of lube.

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  • aetsen555
    5 years ago

    Lots of lube, trust me!

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Why do you want to do it?

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    • LuvItAll
      5 years ago

      Because anal stimulation can be amazing

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        Have you ever seen a picture of a rectal prolapse?

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        • LuvItAll
          5 years ago

          Yes I have. There are numerous causes for this condition. If anal stimulation isn’t your thing that’s cool but when done correctly it can be amazing.

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          • RoseIsabella
            5 years ago

            Yeah, but porn star Eva Devine has had FOUR surgeries to repair rectal prolapses! 😱

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    5 years ago

    if yall keeps a railroad tie or a small tile saw up yalls ass for 72 hours it should be easier

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