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I cheat on my wife for one reason: I'm addicted to blow jobs. My wife has always given me a piss poor blow job. We've talked about it, of course. She is just not into sucking cock. I accept that because I love her and she is a good mother to our kids. So I sneak around and hire hookers to suck me off. And suck me off only. My best buddy says that this is normal. Is it?
So blowjobs are more important than your marriage?
If you're addicted to them the solution isn't to get them behind your wife's back
Nothing worse than a poor hummer, Most she could do is put more than the tip of it in amirite
If she at least is willing to try to give you a BJ, it is up to you to "guide" her if it isn't "up to snuff". There is no such thing as a "bad blowjob", but there is "great ones". Any chick who is willing to put your dick in her mouth should get a good mark for effort.
Get her some books, tapes and or videos on how to improve.
Or, if she really doesn't like giving them, you could just explain to her what you do, that it is ALL you go "outside the marriage" for, I am SURE, if she really loves you, she will understand completely and support your decisions 100%!!!
Oral is a form of petting/fondling. Intercourse is sex. With this definition, you may not be cheating.
Nothing wrong with this. Life is short, and if your needs aren't getting met you should look elsewhere.