About the man?

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I've been talking to this man on and off, I never really thought of him as more than a friend, but recently I've been feeling lonely I don't know if that's what set it off I don't know if my feelings are real. But I just want to talk to this man a lot more I find him so attractive and want to be with him. But I know we can never be together and that hurts me even more. He barely makes contact and I wish he would. But I just feel all over the place. How do I get his attention? Make him like me? Or should I let it go? Or even so how?

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    Did anyone else think this this was going to be about Chuck Norris?

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  • LyeByMistake
    9 years ago

    Could you give more info?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    If he is single and unattached, I doubt that your confessing your interest in him would be taken as anything less than flattering. On the other hand, it could well be the beginning of a life long friendship and relationship. What do you have to lose? YOLO.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I'll probably ruin the friendship altogether.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        A positive attitude would be helpful, but from your post, there isn't much of a friendship yet, to lose.
        Anyway, your choice. It was just my opinion.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    You can't "make" him like you or give you the attention you seek. I think you should let go of this. When obsessive thoughts run through your head distract yourself with an activity that demands your full attention. Whenever your feelings are overwhelming you journal about it to get those feelings out of yourself and if you pray then ask your Higher Power to remove the obsessive sad thoughts of longing. In time the longing and obsession will drain away.

    In the meantime, exercise, eat healthy and learn some relaxation techniques. Be good to yourself.

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