About bisexuality: which statement do you think is most true?

Some people are bisexual, but a lot who say they are actually are gay. 104
Everyone is a little bisexual. 484
Bisexuality does not exist. 35
In general, most people who say they're bisexual are, others aren't. 152
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  • SATC

    The options confused me a little bit. But anyway I consider myself to be bisexual, not something I shout from the rooftops but nor is it something I'm ashamed of either. I would definitely say I am more into men, but I am attracted to women in a way that I can not be fully 'straight'. I went with the option 'Everybody is a little bisexual' but that doesn't mean that everybody wants to screw the same gender, it's a spectrum.

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  • LPP1505

    I am bisexual but I think we suffer as a whole from many misguided beliefs about is. I personally was married to a woman after having had a relationship with a man. I suppose I lean more towards women but I will look at a man and think he's attractive sometimes.

    It's not something I've acted on for a number of years but that's because I don't do casual sex with either gender. Is everyone a little bi? I won't presume to say that but I suspect many more people are than would admit it openly. Also bi-sexual tends to be lumped in with gay.

    THEY ARE NOT THE SAME THING.

    I am no more homosexual than I am heterosexual. Nor is it true that all bisexuals live some sort of porn film life where they're going from threesome to threesome and orgy to orgy. In fact I've never personally cheated on a partner of either gender. All too often it seems that people read bi as promiscuous just as so many people still think all gay men dress like someone out of the village people and hang around gay bars.

    The gay community distrusts us because they think we're secretly straight while the straight community thinks we must be secretly gay. In some ways bi-sexuals have the worst of both worlds not the best.

    My wife knew I am bisexual and she was perfectly content to trust in my fidelity but such people are rare and as a result bi people tend to find it harder to be open about their sexuality because no matter what gender your partner is he/she is always going to wonder if they are enough for you. I've seen too many bi men try to hide their sexuality for just that reason. they'll pretend to be straight or gay and it's sad that in the twenty first century there is still a small but significant portion of our population that feels the need to hide who and what they are.

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  • SuperGeek337

    So basically this is a "which bisexual stereotypes do you think are true?" -___-

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    • VioletTrees

      Yes. Or "which bisexuality myth do you like best?"

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  • There's sexual bisexually, and there is relationship/emotional bisexuality. This doesn't speak to that.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I don't think everyone is a little bi-sexual. I disagree with that because everyone's sexuality is so different. And personally, I don't find myself having sexual urges for other women. I went with the last choice because I've known people who were bisexual because that was their sexuality, and I've known people who were seeking attention (this was moslty in high school) and pretending to be bisexual for the attention of men. I never appreciated those types.

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    You need more options in your poll. This is clearly very weighted and you forget one very important option. That bisexuality is a transitional phase. In that instance its not really non existing but its none of the above options either. Your poll is complete shit. Clearly you have one opinion in this poll and you want to force everyone to agree and you will confirm it by the fact we agreed to taking your weighted poll. So I am just going to refuse to vote since you purposely seemed to put this poll up with the goal of manipulating us.

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  • The majority of girls I knew who said they were bisexual were only that way when they would get drunk, which to me is not truly being bisexual. When a guy says it, it seems to be true more often.

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    • VioletTrees

      Ok, identity police.

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  • Allistalla

    half streight does not mean all streight is could mean all Gay .Even that makes no sense . Thier is no such thing as bisexuel . Thats why it is such a issue dating Bi poeple a mistake I will never make again . Bisexuel means ( im sorry I have not decided )Every single bi person usually chooses a side and I speak from expierence becuase this has happend to me alot and pissed me off as well as I watching this happen to freinds of mine . If you are Bi you inevitubly pick a side thats why it cuases a issue cuase a girl could be with a guy and say " Im sorry I think I like girls I dont love you any more bye " ive also seen the reverse of this . " were a gay female or gay male will leave thier GAY lovers becuase they all a sudden decide " oops I think im streight " this does not matter how many years they been with that person Ive seen them stay with a person for 2 years than all a sudden say well " Goodbye " and it leaves that decided commited person very upset and very distrot . I find this the most messed up thing in the world I hate that this happens and I hate watching this thats why to this day I am never dating Two sided poeple you think its fun but it isnt . Also sometimes Ive seen gays will go streight for awhile after thier partner leaves if they can not find more gays to date . This is also confusing and confuses the hell out of me . If your saying everyone gets the curiousty of what happens being with the other gender than yes . This is basicly a wierd morphed way to make everyone seem gay not everyone is gay not everyone is half streight . poeple have the right to do whatever the hell they want in most countrys I think that both sides should stop pushing thier sexuealities becuase its becoming really annoying . Hearing gay versus streight , versus gay , versus bi , versus trasgender . Nobody gives a suck just dont be a fukn ass about it all you rude inconsiterete poeple . Not everyone is bisexuel becuase you say them are just some poeple are gay some are streight I personlly dont like bisexuels becuase they always fuck up some kindve relationship becuase they at the last minute decide your " Gay " or Streight " and fuck over your partners I think this is pissing off the whole world that you jerks like to do this I think all strieght poeple and all Gay poeple would like to be left alone and not heartbroken by you poeple . I respect a strieght person I also respect a GAY person and if you want to be Bisexuel fine but dont push it on everyone becuase you dont realize that your switching off hurts your partners when you say I decided I dont love you any more I like women or sorry I like men . So dont have this messed up notion no wonder the gays dont want you becuase you are making them cry everytime you get a gay boyfreind or gay girlfreind and than say oh im sorry im Strieght do you realize how insensitive that is to your lover to your partner ? I have been left by bisexuel men becuase they siad I decided I dont like girls and I seen gay females heartbroken becuase their supposedly gay female lover says I like boys .

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    • VioletTrees

      Child, you are mistaken. I'm a bisexual woman who's marrying a man, and I'm not a single bit less attracted to women than I was before I met my fiancé.

      Also, people don't choose to be bisexual any more than people choose to be gay or straight. I don't "want" to be bisexual, I just AM.

      Bisexuals aren't people who switch between which gender we're attracted to. In fact, my sexuality has been pretty consistent since I was in my early teens. It seems like you have a lot of misconceptions about bisexuality. When somebody discovers their sexuality isn't what they thought it was in the middle of a relationship, it sucks for everybody involved. But bisexuals are no more likely to switch than people who identify as straight or gay.

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  • Riddler

    I think a lot of people who use it are bullshitting. I seen it too many times where someone says they are "Bi" and later pick a side. If a true Bisexual exist I think most people who say they are simply lie about it. I think most people who say they are Bisexual are simply undecided on who they want to be with.

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  • lifeschocolate

    well as society still singles out gays ,and bi is lumped in with that for men anyway,a lot like me have had early experiences that we put down as experimenting ,but i have found that for the last 30 yrs since ,every now and then it pops into my head,recently my wife played with my prostate mextreme pleasure, but made me realise i wished at that point she had a penis,.this has led to me wanting to explore my bi side,and i am able to admit to myself atleast that i am.

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  • Javierinla

    I think most people are born gay, bi, or straight..

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    • Nick'sTardis

      no they ain't

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  • bloodfirst:)

    does it matter im attracted to bi women

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  • UliNalaMansae

    i dont think i am, i see hot girls, nothing. I see hot guys... SoMeThInG!

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  • CharlieHarris

    I was totally straight until another guy made love to me. After several experiences where other men satisfied me I was curious what it would be like to satisfy another guy. One evening, after having too much to drink, I was with another guy and I made love to him. I found the experience pleasantly surprising and I was turned on. Today I would have sex with either a gul or a girl depending on the person.

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  • EbonySheep

    I think most are a little bisexual. I dare a chick to say Mila Kunis wasn't hot in Black Swan.

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    • VioletTrees

      There's a difference between recognising that somebody's attractive (or being aesthetically attracted to them) and being sexually attracted to them, though.

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  • kesdog62

    well guys and gals everybody bi you look at a person and wish you were jumping there bones,if they look sexy to yourself no matter what age they are .theres a old sayingits like window shopping you can you can look but you cannot touch

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  • Pornstarfiend

    Well I'm a bisexual guy, and I think everyones a little BI some just experiment & some hide there feelings for fear of being an outcast. For girls everyone thinks 'thats hot' & people think guys, 'ewww gross' but i just say follow your heart & if it feels good & you like it & enjoy it then just go with it. Each to there own i guess.

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    • screwface69er

      Nah i think your quite wrong there bud. I think you would like to think everyone is but unfortunately that's not the case.

      Couldn't say ive ever looked at a bloke (being a bloke myself) and thought "hmmm yeh hes nice"

      It even feels weird to think it to be honest.

      But each to their own and all that.

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    • lowboy116

      agreed

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  • imustbnutz

    Bi-sexual people are greedy!

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    • Riddler

      Greedy how? They are going to be motivated to steal your wallet?

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    • HeadOfState

      Would you mind elaborating?

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    • Girl-vrs-Problem

      @ imustbnutz

      No, they game me bus fare to get home with. =3

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  • ArayaLioness

    I don't agree that everyone's a little bisexual.

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  • Mersaphe

    Like someone above said, we are all a little bisexual. If a woman can tell if another woman is good looking, she is bisexual. If a man can tell if another man is good looking, he is bisexual. The criteria for bisexuality doesn't include wanting to have sex with someone of the same gender, just whether or not you can ever consider someone of the same gender attractive. According to this line of thought I think the vast majority of the human population can be said to have bisexual tendencies

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