A virgin that want to have sex with her close friend!!

I am a virgin that is 19 years old. I really like my guy friend. I known him since the 10th grade but I didnt start talking to him and getting to know until after I graduated from high school which was the summer of 2009. The more I talk to him the more I want him sexually. I currently dont want nobody sexually but him. I have no sexual experience. I really want to be his girl but he just got out of a relationship and dont want a girlfriend. I so sick of hearing about my friends sexual experiences. I just want my own sexually experiences. I want to know it feel like. Im scared if I have sex with him that I will love him or something. Is it wrong for me to have sex with him?

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  • fullmetaljo

    no, you're 19 so you're still pretty fertile. and if you're still a virgin you might just have sexual anxiety, you need a sexual release.

    if you aren't satisfied with the relationship you have with him right now you should talk to him about your feelings. if he's one of your good friends he should be honest with you.

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    The more you talk to him the more I want him sexually? Shit he sounds like the opposite of me thats why I bring back up. In you go into the drink sink! sink! sink!. I call it the confidence booster

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  • mandypandy92

    if you like him, give him sometime and drop a few hints, suport him, and maybe he like you too.. :] i dated my best guy friend for a year but we just had no time anymore and parted but were still really close. but it never hurts to just tell him! thats what i did ha good luck :)

    <3 amanda

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    • unwritten

      I did and he do like me too. Thanks :)

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  • I don't know how sure you are that he doesn't want a girl friend, but you may want to do yourself a favour and talk about your feelings a bit, at least to find out if there is any hope.

    Otherwise you will be just pining away. Better to know.

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  • ahmad_kamal_2002

    start flirting with him but first wear sexy tight cloth...and do your hair tottaly differently..so that in the back of his mind he doesn't really think its "his fried"

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  • Riddler

    Well clearly you are crushing on this boy. So I would say not to have sex with him. You want sex with him because you like him not just purely for sexual pleasure. Now if you have sex with him and he is not doing it since it loves you back its going to crush you. You are going to become even more attached to him and if he ends up going with another woman I don't think you,ll be able to handle it. This will be very bad for your mental state and I would say wait till he gets over his break up and ask him out again. Some people need time.

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  • Yeah its normal, I have recently started sleeping with one of my friends over the past couple of months. It had been leading up to it so it wasnt a surprise. None of the others in our circle of friends know though so its all kept a secret but when we are out together as friends it is at times/weird knowing that yous are sitting there as pals and we tend to end up having an arguement, which in time I feel will ruin our friendship which I am gutted about. But its too late for me saying that now!

    So a would advise to watch it doesnt ruin your friendship with him and think about what you really want from him a relationship or friendship ?

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  • babykev

    see how he feels 1st. you dont wanna loose ya 'v' to this lad and he dont wanna be emotionly attached to u . it would ruin your idea of sex, you would see it as sex ruined your friendship when it could of been lack of talking

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  • uknowitaintmyfault

    call the dancing bear. or hire one. you should be satisfied, and you'd enjoy it. lmao

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