A sad wife who feels lonely lately

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I had a good relationship with my husband until my son was born. After that it has been down hill. It is certainly not from the lack of effort on my part. I have tried to make thing work. I am unsure if I can continue to keep things going like this. I have been married for about two years, one and half years have been complete hell for me. We have had sex less than 10 times in 6 months and I am done. He treats me like a maid at home. He expects me to listen to his orders all the time.I repent why did I even give up my phD degree for this jerk. He has no repect for me or my parents. I am seriously at the point where I am ready to get out. I don’t want to loose my son though. I need to figure out how I can move on.

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  • Whitneyhouston
    13 years ago

    Go back to school, get the phd, this is a casual chat website so misspell away^. Oh yeah, then leave the man. IF he's treating you terribly. Marriage shouldn't e lifelong suffering:/

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Consider marital/separation counseling. If the marriage is salvageable it will help, if not, you can sort feelings, issues related to separating as amicably as possible with the interest of your son. If he won't go seek legal advice and counseling support on your own.

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  • WhiteSheepOfTheFamily
    12 years ago

    Get your Ph.D, have tons of sex with other men in the meantime, and then dump his ass.

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  • hotchickie81
    14 years ago

    I am so sorry to hear about your situation. Have you tried talking to him? Maybe give him an ultimatum (sorry about the spelling). Good luck!

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    i'd like to add that if the relationship was good until "your son was born", i strongly urge you to talk to your physician. you could still be suffering from post-partum depression. actually, i would advise this to be your first action.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    sounds like counseling is a good idea. if he won't go with you, consider going alone.

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  • LovingTogether
    13 years ago

    Once the children arrive, sex with hubby goes out the window. After fucking other women, my wife and I decided to swing together. We've enjoy the lifestyle for over 35 years. There are two treatments for your loneliness: Masturbation and Bisexuality. Both can be a lovely new beginning!

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  • sickness
    13 years ago

    Please do not mention "Ph.D." and misspell words in the same paragraph. It's quite insulting. My wife left me so I know what you're going through.

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    • WhiteSheepOfTheFamily
      12 years ago

      I'm sickness (63852), and I jerk it to the dictionary.

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