A 21 year old guy crushin on a 40 year old woman? - more details iin?

I'm a 21 year old single guy. I started this job as a substitute at a local library. The person who trained me happened to be a 40 something year old woman. I noticed she was quite flirtatious while showing me the ropes and I really began to enjoy her company. She was extremely nice and I found her personality to be so compelling, I just wanted to talk to her whenever I could and she seemed more than happy to reciprocate my attitude towards her. One day, she was standing very close and started making a very sexy gesture, you know, the type of body language that says " I like you ". Here's the weird part. I got an erection! Is that pathetic or what? I saw her eyes go down there too. She was shocked at first but found it to be hilarious (I could tell) and we both pretended to ignore it. I just sat down as soon as I noticed she noticed. I swear it was embarrassing but at the same time I didn't care because it's nature after all. I don't mind as long as it increased her confidence and didn't freak her out. I don't really blame myself, I blame my hormones and her for being such an attractive woman. Now she has a story she can laugh about with her friends, as I'm sure she did seeing how she is. I'm just left with feeling like a loser. Oh well, Mature woman have such power over guys like me. I guess this is probably not normal, but if any older woman wants to give insight as to what their reaction would be I'd appreciate it.

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  • Legion

    I say, if you love her, go for it! she seems to be interested, who cares if she's in her forties. It doenst really matter the age unless one of you is under 18 in America, then the law frowns upon it.

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  • Jweezee

    It's normal. I mean liking the woman, not the boner part. I find middle aged, mature women attractive ( some, def not all). And an awesome personality coupled with emotional maturity is hard to resist. A few years ago, when i was 25, i dated a beautiful 42 yr old divorced nurse. There wasn't the typical manufactured drama and childish games. I don't have a thing for older women, but I don't exclude them. And I'm not sayin all older women are more mature or that all younger girls aren't, but an additional 20-30 yrs of living can provide a lot of personal growth.

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  • zenji

    You're lovely, I hope she's good to you :)

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  • Enlightened

    Sex-pervert ?

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