A 15 year old dating a 19 year old?

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My sister and her friend had a sleepover at my house last week, and her friend's boyfriend came over to watch a movie with them. I thought he looked a bit older than them so I asked how old he was, and he said he was 19. I think he's a bit old for this girl, as he's a legal adult and she's only JUST turned 15. I want to say something but I don't know whether it's an okay age gap or not. I asked my sister what she thought and she argued that there's 4 years between our parents. But they were both adults when they started dating (25 and 29) so I don't really think it's the same. I would be fine with it if the girl was older, but when they left I heard this girl talking about doing...other stuff with him, I think she was kidding around, but I'm not entirely sure. What do you think?

It's okay as long as they don't do anything 11
It's totally wrong, he's too old for her 15
Do what they want, it's only 4 years 19
If they really like each other, they'll wait until she's older 19
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  • SkullsNRoses
    10 years ago

    Four years is too big an age gap in your teens, fifteen and nineteen isn't dating, it's babysitting.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      It's slutty teen bangings!

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago

    Babysitting

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  • realrealist
    10 years ago

    I personally would not go that young at 19, but who is anybody else to say otherwise? A bunch of loudmouth windbags is all. They know nothing so no problems but respect the local laws/customs.

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  • crion
    10 years ago

    The accepted legal and medical for dating creepiness is: age รท 2 + 7. Do not date people younger than this.

    Tell them to wait a year, then it won't be creepy.

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    • Queen^of^Spades
      10 years ago

      interesting formula..i actually try not to date people who are years younger or more than 5 years older than me :P

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  • April=)
    10 years ago

    its ok when i was 10 i dated a 14 year old.
    When i was 11 i dated a 12 year old.
    When i was 11 i dated a 16 year old and so on.
    Dont worry leave it to them its thier choice!

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  • Cheese123
    10 years ago

    Man, this reminds me. I'm 19 and this girl I really liked was 15 turning 16. I actually made a post saying how conflicted I was over it. In the end, I kinda stayed away from her. I couldn't have stood the self-doubt and my conscience

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  • flyingfromtheearth
    10 years ago

    as long as the age gap dosent go past 6-8 years apart then it's fine but she's still a minor so i don't think soooo.....

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  • randomthoughts
    10 years ago

    Personally I feel the age gap is totally fine however, not in this case as she is a minor and is not legal yet. It would be ok if she was 16 and he 19.

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