9 year old son

ALL THAT AND YOUR WORRIED ABOUT THE WAY HE IS SPANKING HIM?!?!?!?!?!!? WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU?!?!?!?!?!

Have his sister there, bare his bum, give him a good spanking, make him apologize to her, then finish his spanking, make him hug her and show he is sorry. Connect the crime to the spanking.

my dad spanked me and i am just fine if not a hell of a lot better than the other kids i know i am nicer and more considerate of the rules so ya spank him!!!

That kind of language at that age reflects either the language at home or in his environment. Find out where he's learning it and remove that influence. That said, that kind of anger and rage could be a sign of juvenile bi-polar. It can be controlled with meds and counseling and if caught early enough can be prevented from causing serious issues when older. I say this as my now 10 year old was diagnosed with jbp a little over a year ago. The meds are helping and he is a different person. If his problem is psychological then spanking - which I'm a fan of - won't help.
I would definitely seek some professional guidance from a child psychologist.
Best wishes.

A good hard bare bottom spanking with a slipper is the answer

A well deserved spanking at 9 he knows right from wrong so yeah a spanking is deffo deserved

PEOPLE ARE TOO HABITUAL ABOUT BLAMING THEIR PARENTS FOR ALL OF THEIR PROBLEMS: HOWEVER, THIS SOUNDS LIKE A POTENTIAL FAMILY ISSUE. KIDS ACT OUT FOR A MULTITUDE OF REASONS (ADD--A BIG ONE THESE DAYS), SO IT'S HARD TO SAY. SETTING BLAME ASIDE, I WOULD TRY AND IMAGINE THE SITUATION (FAMILY AND ALL) AS BEING SOMEONE ELSE. SEE HOW THE SITUATION AT HOME AND WITH YOUR SON APPEARS TO YOU. YOU MAY SEE THAT THE PROBLEMS CENTER IN THE HOME. HATE TO DO THE GENERIC THING, BUT SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP WOULD BE IDEAL.

Spank away!!!!

Beat his ass what a jerk

Spank him! That's what's wrong with kids we stopped spanking... Don't let him watch bad stuff on tv or most video games

oh he got a good tanning!!!!

a good belting or maybe 10 good beltings spread out 24 licks each.

some kids need many bare butt spankings to learn give him 7 random spankings hairbrush then if he acts up soon incease to 30 ect his snot should be all over before the end of one spanking

Sounds like he needs to have his mouth thoroughly washed out with ivory soap and then bare his bottom for a long hard belting. Maybe even punish him like this for three nights in a row, or you could do like my mom used to and make him hold the bar of soap in his mouth while you strap and cane his bare butt

There are more ways to get to the problem, is there not, other than the exertion of spanking. Un-abled, crippled, disabled, et al, children need another form of hurt than a naked bare bottom spanking. Even slapping won't work for 'mentals', and such a condition ought to be obvious to observant parents, working or not. GENERALLY, 9 year old Conrad needs a real humiliating and painful naked bare bottomed spanking in front of his sister with his sister getting some strokes in. Then the liitle guy should be made to cry hard and for real. That's when the parent(s) should talk to him and cuddle him and get real. After he explains what he did wrong and what he SHOULD do, he should get a smaller but painful cry-making spanking to make the whole issue real for him. Then a cuddling to make sure he knows he is loved, the sister cuddling too. This cuddling is also to make him KNOW that his body is under others' control. He needs to be made to realize he needs to exercise SELF CONTROL to have his body free. For one explanation.

he sounds like he's been abused.... Physically or sexually.... good job keeping it up. spanking is so pervy. Nine is WAY to old btw!!!

It's obvious why Conrad behaves the way he does. He's ill-treated. You've damaged him by being such cruel, awful parents.

.....You gotta be kidding me. I have never been spanked and my parents would Never dream of such things.. Im a good kid (I know, lol) But i am.. I also have a big brother who has never been spanked. And we are like to least mean kids in our school... We are NOT geeks or nerds. We dont not always do homework and we are pretty lazy. But our family is good.. And that you need to hit your own child to learn him a lesson.. Its pretty much your fold he is like that. And now that you have spanked him, does he behave better.. No. So clearly its not the way to go!

That boy needs a good spanking

he was are assed spanked over his dad's knee!!!!!