(women)do you like it when men flaunt you like a trophy?

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When a guy gets a girlfriend he usually flaunts it. When he get a girl he will be standing with her and give a thumbs up to his guy friends. Not caring if the female sees what they are doing or not. How does this make you feel? They give him the reaction of "Oh yeah you getting some".

I love it and like be showed off by my man 9
I agreed to date him he should not objectify me 10
I dont care either way but I do think its a rude gesture 4
I like that my man is proud to show me off but it makes me shy 11
I don't care and thought this was normal 4
Im a male and even I think this rude never would do this 8
I am a male and if I do it I make sure the female isn't there 4
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  • SangoNyappy
    10 years ago | pl

    "When a guy gets a girlfriend he usually flaunts it."
    Please tell me you did not just talk about girl as "it".

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I mean the fact he has a girlfriend. Not the actual female.

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      • SangoNyappy
        10 years ago

        Good then. It sounds strange in that sentence.

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  • imadragon
    10 years ago

    I would appreciate if he spoke highly of me as a person, but flaunting me in the way you are describing here would piss me off.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    I hate it when men treat me like an object. Last guy who did that grabbed my ass (Wasn't my boyfriend) I punched him the face :/ Then there's that disrespectful public boob honk some guys have tried with me. It's a big hell no on my part.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Fuck yeah! You go girl! XD I wish I could have witnessed it. It sounds funny as hell.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    ...I've never seen this happen, but I have seen a female do it when she was talking to me, in which she didn't think I seen her, although I was not in a relationship with her (she had asked me later on after that day).

    If you think only men do this, you are mistaken.

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    • Anime7
      10 years ago

      I just realized that due to the fact that your considered attractive you probably get objectified often. Therefore you probably can better relate to women. Is that fair to say?

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        I wouldn't say that because I am considered attractive that I can relate to women, more so I can relate to men considered attractive.
        Attractive guys do tend to have to face the same things women complain about guys doing to them, such as being stared at, implied sexual comments, or blatant sexual comments.
        From sexual comments, to being slapped on the backside, I have had it all happen.

        I think people think just because it happens to men, and men don't make a big deal about it, that it can't make them not happy about it.

        I think this is more so something people that are considered attractive have to deal with, more so than just a single gender, if that makes sense.

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        • Anime7
          10 years ago

          I could imagine being objectified like that to be annoying but society says you're a guy therefore you're suppose to like it. Which is just terribly wrong. I think I understand, it's not really about gender it's just about attractive people in general.

          By the way you never replied to my characterization of you, you know about being a novel character. What did you think of it? Also would you write one for me?

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            I did read over your characteristic response, and I quite liked it, it was detailed in a good way.

            I didn't respond mainly because you asked of one from me about you. I wanted to, but I really don't know much about users on here, as I don't usually spend time reading what others comment, so I felt it would be quite insulting if I responded telling you that I didn't know enough about you to make one, but I suppose ignoring you when asking is equally rude, so I apologize.

            I will say this, you do have a good mind for describing people/scenes, etc. I was very impressed by what you typed.

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            • Anime7
              10 years ago

              I appreciate the honesty and I guess I can't really blame you. I usually read over what people say, so I feel that from that I at least have a character in mind. I'm glad to hear that you liked it.

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals
        10 years ago

        As an ugly male who gets rejected often I would LOVE to be so called "objectified". I wish a girl would date me because she thinks I'm hot, not because she "sees me for other things".

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        • Anime7
          10 years ago

          I'm actually right there with you honestly. I get told that I have a great personality, but that's really it. I've been told I'm unattractive, and that's like self esteem genocide right there. I like my personality, but girls don't really want to date a guy because of his personality. A good personality is just a bonus to someone who has good looks. Girls want someone who's attractive, which is understandable, but it still hurts when you get told that you have nice personality and that's it.

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          • ccjigsaw
            10 years ago

            Awww.... That's so sad that you think so. I've seen your profile picture and I think you're cute. You're actually my type, although that picture is probably younger than you are now. If I remember correctly its been the same one for a while, you should update it!

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          • charli.m
            10 years ago

            Whoever told you you were unattractive was a rude fuckstick. If the profile pic is you (and I assume so) then I don't understand what they're on about. Fuck them. I'm sorry they were such a prick.

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            • Anime7
              10 years ago

              Hey thanks, I'm actually insecure about my looks so I just wanted to pick a photo that I felt attractive in. Thanks.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    I'm obviously a damn good trophy!

    I think my Bf should be proud of having me as his property and he should be glad to show me off!

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